43 years grown..Wow what a head crack..

Fellas, you know how it is when you finally realized that by teh time you hit 40 you have probably lived three quarters of your life already..(assuming we are healthy or those three quarters just got shorter)  it's a mutha when a man is forced to come to terms with his own mortality.. like damn, i guess i really ain't gon live forever huh.. and then we look back on the journey and look at the road ahead and realize that we really don't have alot of time left to do and be the things we desired our whole lives..ain't that a head crack?  and you start asking yoursef, where the hell did all the time go?  and just what in the hell did i do in that time?   And what i gotta do to get this thing done in the time i got left?  

Well.. some Miles Davis and cognac last nite helped me develop a new mantra for this next stage of my life.. and it's a simple one check it out.....

Ask for what you want.. just like that..ask for what you want from your God from the world from your family friends and loved ones.. and let em know when they coming up short..I'm through wearing my race and the burdens of selfish immature brothas like an albatross around my neck...I"m a ask for what i want.. we are worthy men, whether found in the factories or on college campuses, we are worthy indeed..ask for what you want from this life my brothers.. and it will come..now what ya'll tasting cause i'm buying.. the first round is on me..Happy Birthday baby boy..mama would be proud..

D,
Happy B'day and welcome to the North Side of the Four-Oh.   Trust and beleive, Man, I've been here for five years, have gone thru the same exact thing (funny, my realization came with cognac and Charlie "Bird" Parker--go figure. lol).

You're right, though.  If you find yourself being mature about it, these are the years to do self-actualization, find out what type of man you're going to be from here on out, and, more importantly, just do it!

Again, bruh, happy b'day to you and may you see many more.

Man when we gonhook up for shots and stoogies baby?

Dude, whenever u get to the city...shots? Cool. Stoogies?  Unfortunately, I don't imbibe.  Ain't got the lungs for smoke. lol.   But we can hang.

I am not a fella (maybe a guy, even a dayum dude LOL), but I TOTALLY understand ~whew~

Happy Happy Happy Bday to you Donnie ~smooches~

Dedee,
Whassap, dude.   LOL

~Dee scrunches nose, stratches crotch ~

uh, D?
You forgot to spit after you scratched, dude.  lol

on the cheek Dee Dee on the cheek..you too fine to be my friend..i ain' t that dude..

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