Married folk: Question
I haven't been clubbin since being married (I went 2x's afterwards, but he was there so that don't count)
I wear my ring at all times, unless I forget to.....occassionally..
However, there was this one time that I went to Red Lobster by myself and this guy was working there was fine azz hell.....so I took my ring off, but he saw my ring tan and asked me about it! I don't lie well at all so I put it back on while he was sitting there...
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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Well to answer your question...I have not been clubbing in years & I don't have the desire to go. I am so happily married and don't need to go BUT.....if I did still go to clubs, I'd definitely wear my wedding ring. Why? Because it is my commitment to my husband & without it I'd feel so empty inside.
True story..... a few weeks ago, I was rushing late in the morning and left the house without my ring. I work about 30 to 45 minutes away from home & I was already on the interstate by the time I realize I had forgotten it. Well what did I do? I knew I would be late for work but I proceed to the next exit...went back home and got my ring. I never go anywhere without my ring on because that's how much I love my hubby! LOL
on 12/15/08 1:49 am
Hey there lady!
I hear ALL of that...but just let me say, I am HAPPILY married and STILL go clubbing. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I go and have my "me" time because I know when I come home....I have a warm welcome waiting for me. Plus plus plus.....I love the time with my girlfriends and will never give up the sisterhood....it's good for my soul. And hubby wouldn't have it any other way.
And that goes vice versa. He goes out with the boys and I have no problem with it....just bring home some of those good ass wings when you get home....I don't care what time it is.
Wish I had girlfriends that live closer to Wilmington that I could hang out with from time to time. That would really make me happy!