OT: I've turned into such an a$$hole...need advice
I have no choice at the moment cause brotha is HEATED!! I knew I was wrong and just got in too deep so i gotta face the consequences. I was missing something and I tried to communicate that to him before I gave in to the "options" out there. Still it does not excuse my actions but we are still talking about some texts not like I was sleepin around him.
So... Is that considered cheating?
So... Is that considered cheating?
You know what, if you tried to talk to him about the issue at hand how did he take it? What was the outcome? Did he dismiss it and say so what? What happened?
If he dismissed like it wasn't a big deal then I don't blame you. My father always told me if you don't want another man doing it to or for your woman then make sure you do it.
He wasn't taking care of his and you got else where. Thats his fault. Do you shawty!!!
Yes, to me it is still cheating b/c you opened up Pandora's BOX. You let him in your space and ain't no telling what his TRUE intentions are.
If he dismissed like it wasn't a big deal then I don't blame you. My father always told me if you don't want another man doing it to or for your woman then make sure you do it.
He wasn't taking care of his and you got else where. Thats his fault. Do you shawty!!!
Yes, to me it is still cheating b/c you opened up Pandora's BOX. You let him in your space and ain't no telling what his TRUE intentions are.
He just kind of dismissed my concerns told me that I was imagining things he did pay attention to me, claims he acknowledges me and all that I do. I truly did try to talk to him when I first felt tempted. Stll I know I was wrong I should have not went outside my relationship regardless of the extent.
On December 12, 2008 at 9:48 AM Pacific Time, Tammy.W wrote:
I have no choice at the moment cause brotha is HEATED!! I knew I was wrong and just got in too deep so i gotta face the consequences. I was missing something and I tried to communicate that to him before I gave in to the "options" out there. Still it does not excuse my actions but we are still talking about some texts not like I was sleepin around him.So... Is that considered cheating?
There are people who think that intimate conversations online with someone other than your spouse/significant other is considered cheating--even if you've never actually touched, much less laid eyes on each other in real life.
My personal opinion....cheating DOES NOT have to be sexual. Cheating is anything you cannot tell me or do with a sneaky action. Anything you have to do without my consent because you feel I will not approve of it.....so yes, depending on the text ~let's meet; I want to do you, etc~ that is cheating.
However, let me tell you what my sister told me before I married:
Fornication is fornication---that can be with 1 mate for life or 100
Now Adultery; that's a different story.....
However, let me tell you what my sister told me before I married:
Fornication is fornication---that can be with 1 mate for life or 100
Now Adultery; that's a different story.....
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
WOW....I will say this if I was him I would be pissed off, it is hard to ignore the attention but you have 2. you are not an ASS you just got caught up in the moment which we all do....If he is someone you really want to be with you will have to aplogize to him, wholeheartly, give him some time to get over it, you were not doing it with this other man were u? if not HE will get over it. Now for the makeup if it happens you will need 3 things
1. nasty red hooker boots
2. a nice hard stiff drink
3. some listernine strips
If the makeup does nothappen you will have to cut your losses and move on to the next, it will be hard but you will get through it.
1. nasty red hooker boots
2. a nice hard stiff drink
3. some listernine strips
If the makeup does nothappen you will have to cut your losses and move on to the next, it will be hard but you will get through it.
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!
On December 12, 2008 at 9:21 AM Pacific Time, caramel_2 wrote:
WOW....I will say this if I was him I would be pissed off, it is hard to ignore the attention but you have 2. you are not an ASS you just got caught up in the moment which we all do....If he is someone you really want to be with you will have to aplogize to him, wholeheartly, give him some time to get over it, you were not doing it with this other man were u? if not HE will get over it. Now for the makeup if it happens you will need 3 things1. nasty red hooker boots
2. a nice hard stiff drink
3. some listernine strips
If the makeup does nothappen you will have to cut your losses and move on to the next, it will be hard but you will get through it.
Put yourself in his place? Would YOU be able to get over it with an article of seductive clothing, Henny and breath strips? LOL WTF?????????? LOL>
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