OT: I've turned into such an a$$hole...need advice

MrBaker870
on 12/12/08 12:56 am - Little Rock, AR
See that right there would have had me heated........

What you mean what am I doing in your phone? You got something to hide? That right there would have made me question you?

That right there would have been your best move to NOT DO IT at all. Then when you get caught up your asking "what you looking in my phone for"

"What you going out w/ another man for"
Smile for me.........
Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:05 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

Yeah, I'd be like ~smiling all sweet~ "what are you looking for, Baby?~

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:02 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
See, at least you can admit your wrong....some would still be in denial LOL

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

Tiffany G.
on 12/12/08 12:51 am
LMAO!  U right...  girl, if you gonna play you gotta learn the RULES!
~*Tiffany*~ my DS
     
It Is What It Is!!!
on 12/12/08 1:38 am - Boston, MA

And don't forget to delete all the messages in the Inbox, Sent and Deleted boxes!!! LOL 
And while you are at it, delete your crap out of the History folder on the internet......  I mean NOT saying I know anything about all of this stuff..... ROFLMAO   I'm just saying, I heard that one should do this........

Dalexis
on 12/12/08 1:41 am, edited 12/12/08 1:43 am - Brooklyn, NY
****writing the new book******



"Wow to Cheat And Get Away With It: A Woman's Primer On How To Get Over."

I can make a mint with this.  Of course, a lot of brothers probably won't read this, so, maybe I make a straight-to-DVD movie out of this. 
Dedee
on 12/12/08 1:44 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
girl, not just the history folder....delete the cookies too ~I'm juss saying~

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

Dalexis
on 12/12/08 1:45 am - Brooklyn, NY
"Chapter 2..

Don't forget to delete, not just the history folder, but the cookies, too.  You never know when the unsuspecting spouse may just TURN suspecting.  ..." 


Tammy.W
on 12/12/08 1:51 am - Littleton, CO
i guess I should have done the male thing and not let me phone out of my sight, kept it on silent all the time. Took the thang into the bathroom with me...

myspace.com/free2bme4me  

        
Dalexis
on 12/12/08 1:58 am - Brooklyn, NY
So Tammy, lemme ask a question:

Are you sorry you cheated or sorry you got caught?  Inquiring/nosy arse minds wanna know.   The answer to that question may determine whether its even worth it to try to mend things with him. 

When I cheated on my wife, I didn't care that she found out; I was thru with her at that point.  Of couse, in retrospect, I should have just left rather than bring a third party into it (but that's another topic for another time). 

Someone mentioned a transference of addictions.  Maybe it is, but a lot of us get the change in attention because of the change in our "covers".  Its up to the person to determine how they choose to deal with that "new found" attention/attaction.   
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