I actually got pissed today seriously..

What the hell happen to my post when I went in to edit it, it wasn't there.. Strange shyte that was.. I know what you mean..and that was not very nice to say potatoes.. He could tell I was pissed because I wouldn't say anything to him and I gave him that look.. He wasn't bitten his tongue at all just let it roll out..I swear something popped in my head when he said that and I had to bite the bullet... There will come a time when I eiether will thank him or cut his ass.

 Your post really threw me off.  I read it, but when I went to respond it said something totally different.  I had to go back to be sure I was responding to the right thing!  
I know what he said was hurtful 

 You're on the rt. one.. I don't know why it disappeared. other than this memory problem on the puter.. I did reboot but it's still there and also doing weird shyte.. I think I'm going to buy me some memory because it's going to dayum slow.. I can't stand it..

 I was hoping to save you a few bucks.  Hard to diagnose a problem when I cannot really see the message.  Hope you get it working good again.  

Once I get me some memory I'm going to call up dell and they will help me find out exactly what's going on.. Everything I have to click  at least 4 times before it will move.. To much work.

 But it was not doing this when you first got the machine?  I have a feeling there is more to it than memory, but hard to diagnose.
I would also suggest running defragmentation.  I don't use Windows anymore and don't know what OS you have, but it should be somewhere in your tools menu.  

No it started a about 3 months after I got it.. I've seen that defragmentation before on here..I have no idea where..I've got a windows xp 2350 I'm going to tools and see if I can find it..I will hit you up tomorrow..  and tell you what happened..

  I got a really stupid question so please don't laugh at me, but what exactly are grits???  

 That's not a stupid question I burst out laughing so hard my side hurts.. You have to see the movie My Cousin Vinny... It has a line in it where they asked what's a grit..  It's made from hominy I think it's one of those southern delicacies.. Mostly served with breakfast...  It was served at home daily...I had the hardest time finding  some grits at resturants when I 1st came to michigan... I like them a lot my son just started eating them this year.. I try to eat them at least twice a week.. Up here they mostly eat cream of wheat, which I don't like.. You should try some one day.. 

 LMAO
I am happy I made you laugh
I have always wanted to try them, but wanted to know what they were first.
Cream of Wheat I know and sometimes like it.  The problem is I like sugar and milk in mine and both are no good for me.