Deletion???????
Kim I am so sorry that that happened to you that is just AWFUL..people up here need to get a life, that just proves you never know who is lurking and waiting to do some foul "sneaky snake" ****damn I am so sorry that happened to you....
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!
GIrl I feel you on deleted posts, but this site is free, and so are the people on it.
So what can you do
I think I've only deleted 1x since being on BAF, even though there are plenty of times when I wish I had cause I might have said way tooooooooo much.
If someone deletes something before I get to it.....I figure it It wasnt meant for my " tender ears" or shall I say eyes.
( I took that from Motown's Finest aka Joy-cie )
So what can you do
I think I've only deleted 1x since being on BAF, even though there are plenty of times when I wish I had cause I might have said way tooooooooo much.
If someone deletes something before I get to it.....I figure it It wasnt meant for my " tender ears" or shall I say eyes.
( I took that from Motown's Finest aka Joy-cie )
But I DO have a question, though, on the real: why does it bother anyone if ANYONE deletes something they wrote? Who is it hurting? More interesting is the amount of comments on this. LOL.
I can't speak for anyone else, but when I did it, it was usually deleting stuff that wasn't getting responses anyway, thus a wasted of space; I found, also, I was censoring myself needlessly. Yeah, I know...stupid chiot, but it WAS what it WAS.
eta: funny how only one person responded to my question. I wonder what would be the reaction if I DELETED this post? LMBOOOOOOOOOO
I can't speak for anyone else, but when I did it, it was usually deleting stuff that wasn't getting responses anyway, thus a wasted of space; I found, also, I was censoring myself needlessly. Yeah, I know...stupid chiot, but it WAS what it WAS.
eta: funny how only one person responded to my question. I wonder what would be the reaction if I DELETED this post? LMBOOOOOOOOOO
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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Mine *****
on 12/10/08 8:38 am
on 12/10/08 8:38 am
That I can't explain. I don't understand it. Why write it if you can't stand by it? I have been on OH since 2001-02. There used to be a time when there was nothing you could do other than sit there and let the post simmer. I will say that there was more "pulling" of post in the past and that has really lightend up. I think that was worse on some account. I am not a deleter but I don't post as much as I used to due to the fact that this board is sometimes not friendly toward those who have not had WLS.
The question that I am asked most often:
Is that your hair??????
A Phenomenal Woman who doesn't have to Ego Trip to Still Rise: Pretty women often wonder where my secret lies...I am a woman, phenomenally....that's me!!!!!
Is that your hair??????
A Phenomenal Woman who doesn't have to Ego Trip to Still Rise: Pretty women often wonder where my secret lies...I am a woman, phenomenally....that's me!!!!!
Peach,
with me, it wasn't a matter of not standing behind what I said, for in the "drama" I'd gotten into, I stood by what I said. Both times. After that, when I deleted stuff, it was usually stuff that got no reponses anyway.
with me, it wasn't a matter of not standing behind what I said, for in the "drama" I'd gotten into, I stood by what I said. Both times. After that, when I deleted stuff, it was usually stuff that got no reponses anyway.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
www.myspace.com/dalexis863
Mine *****
on 12/10/08 11:34 am
on 12/10/08 11:34 am
I can understand that completely. If it's not getting a response then maybe it should be deleted.........lol. I was just saying in general to those who fall into that category of habitual deleters.....lol.
The question that I am asked most often:
Is that your hair??????
A Phenomenal Woman who doesn't have to Ego Trip to Still Rise: Pretty women often wonder where my secret lies...I am a woman, phenomenally....that's me!!!!!
Is that your hair??????
A Phenomenal Woman who doesn't have to Ego Trip to Still Rise: Pretty women often wonder where my secret lies...I am a woman, phenomenally....that's me!!!!!