If I may ask.. What caused you to lose your virginity??

What caused me to lose my virginity, eh?

Alcohol+Adolecent Horniness=3.5 Seconds of Bliss. 

I found the right person and I haven't regretted it since.  But you have to make the decision that is right for you when its right for you don't get caught up with age. Its just a number.

honestly i was young and foolish....trying to be grown...hell just making all the wrong choices. I commend you for keeping yr virginity..it is more precious than time..it is yours to control and cherish...once given away you can never get it back.....

Be Blessed,
Ms.Cleo

I just want to start out by say congrats looks like you almost at goal I lost mine due to peer pressure and all of my friends saying how wonderful it was i was 16 (ave age) do i wish i could take it back HELL YES because i barley knew the bussard and it wasnt all of what it was cracked up to me. I am 25 i have been having sex since i was 16 but i did start to understand and love until i was 20. Calculation : 4 years of my life i wasted doing it with no good negros who i just wanted then to LIKE ME i just wanted to be DOWN! Man i wish i could get those years back.


Sorry it was so long. Alot on my chest ......

Just wanted to lose it cause my friends did.....so I guess you could say it was peer pressure.
Looking back I wish I would not have done it but hey you live and learn.

I held on to my virginity until I was 22.  One of the main reason I feel I did not do it before then was because I was extremly shy and did not have a boyfriend until I was 21.  All my friend had way long ago lost theirs and had a baby (No peer pressure for me) I did not do it for love.  I did it because I was READY!  I do not regret my decision at all to wait as long as I did.

Momma and daddy went to work and both brothers were gone their friends... What else was I to do at home alone??

What else were u to do at home alone? 

Read a damned book.  LOL> 

Lost my virginity because at the beginning of the 9th grade school year my friends and I decided that we would not go to high school virgins.  Thus, I lost my virginity the day before I graduated from the 9th grade.  I was 14.  I'd been with my boyfriend a little over a year he was 17.  LOL.  Well I soon regretted it because a week later the young lady who was calling his house, who SUPPOSED to be just a friend, called my best friend to tell her that she was pregnant with his baby.  Hence my first harsh lesson about a man.  If he ain't getting it from you, he's getting it from SOMEBODY!

I was all broken up about it but urraaa she did me a favor.  He is now a CRACK HEAD.  Litterally!

On a side note, hold on to your virginity as long as you can.  Your body is a precious give and should not be given away on a whim.  You won't think it's a big deal until you lose it.  Shoot with HIV, and all the other STD's out here as well as unwanted pregnancies etc.  I WISH I was a virgin.  LOL.