If I may ask.. What caused you to lose your virginity??

Heaven_Eyes
on 12/9/08 5:33 am - MD

I've been a virgin for 18 yrs and I'm not ashamed, but it seems like the more I think about it the more I question why I haven't lost it yet. Virginity isn't a big thing for me at all.. either you are one or you aren't, but I would like to know, if you don't mind sharing, what made you lose your virginity? Was it either because you found the right person? Just wanted to lose it? Or THOUGHT you had found the right person?

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 12/9/08 5:34 am

this is ONE question that has NOT appeared on the board - and dude - you SO do NOT want my answer - it's a bummer for REAL.....

So Imma sit here and chomp my snacks..... LOL!!!

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Heaven_Eyes
on 12/9/08 5:36 am - MD

RNY on 04/25/08

Aww c'mon MM! You must respond! Pretty please??

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 12/9/08 5:41 am

ummm - this is a TOTAL BUZZ kill!!!!

I lost my virginity to date rape. I was 16 and it was my first boyfriend - I had actually never even kissed a boy until him and I was JUST fine at that level - but he had other ideas. My mom wasn't really all that good at explain the 'birds and bees' to me - so I didn't understand how boys will try to get at you.....

N-E-Ways - we were walking thru a park one night on a date, stopped to make out on a bench and next thing I know, he decided to make the decision for me and I was a different person - forever.

See? told you............ BUZZ KILL!!!!!!

It took a lot of friends, homespun therapy and then my ex-fiance (wonderful man for me at the time) coming into my life for me to get my 'who' back.

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Heaven_Eyes
on 12/9/08 5:46 am - MD

RNY on 04/25/08

Oh.. I'm so sorry MM.. I really didn't mean to pry...

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 12/9/08 5:48 am

It's all good babygirl!!! The things that happen TO me do not DEFINE me! i just ain't wanna crash tha mood - dats all - plus you are young - but - serves as a cautionary tale - WATCH OUT FOR THEM NICCAS!!!!

the one you THINK you can trust is the one you should MAYBE watch!!!!

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

mscleo
on 12/9/08 5:49 am, edited 12/9/08 5:59 am - WA

Lap Band on 07/30/07

{{{{{hug}}}}}

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 12/9/08 5:54 am

Thanks - but chile please - that's long ago, all said and done.

The ****** up part was the mofo went back to school and tole all his homies I was a freak! That impression stayed with me forever!!! My homegirl just started working with a dude I went to high school with.. that knew this mofo - HE told HER I was a freak from wayyy back.... ~smh~ that's some BULLSHIOT!!!! LOL

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

mscleo
on 12/9/08 6:08 am - WA

Lap Band on 07/30/07

I know and i understand it just sickens me that some men or should i say imitators of men .....think its okay to TAKE something that is so dear and special to a woman...if they only knew of its lasting affects...thank god you are where you are MM..some women never heal...they spend much of their lives being victims..

"He who binds to himself a joy doth the winged life destroy. But he who kisses the joy as it flies lives in Eternity's sunrise."~William Blake

Madame
on 12/9/08 5:42 am - Oxon Hill, MD

RNY on 06/03/04

MD - 2020
Fass~ass I tell ya just a Fass-Ass!!!

Hold on to it as long as you can Sweetie!! It's one of the only things in this life that is COMPLETELY YOURS UNTIL YOU GIVE IT AWAY!!!!!

Peace & Blessings, Sharon
6 years and counting

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