Black Identity

Dalexis
on 12/9/08 12:14 am - Brooklyn, NY

On December 9, 2008 at 7:48 AM Pacific Time, Chelle B. wrote:

On December 9, 2008 at 7:31 AM Pacific Time, Dalexis wrote:

On December 9, 2008 at 7:28 AM Pacific Time, Dedee wrote:

I love my people....I love me some BLACK people.....I don't mean just BLACK Americans.....I love the BLACK race of all ethnicities....with that said,

I sure as hell don't identify with all the crazy mfers ~WHEW~ and why do people think ~I~ should just because I am of the Black race???? ~roll eyes~

So, I work in a corporate environment.....you presence should be business casual and neat....why this mfer walking around with his hair not combed and they looking at me and talking about it.....hell WHAT?! My hair is combed (well wrapped) under my dayum wig....how da hell I'm 'spose to identify with that schitt???? My husby is always GROOMED and presentable....and so is our son....Dedee don't do rageddy ~roll eyes~

Handle that schitt yoself....that is NOT my job!

You know to some pink people, we're all monolithic. We all speak alike, act alike, can play basketball, love chit'lins, etc.

Just ignore it, roll your eyes (as usual) and keep it moving, like i know ur doing anyway. lol

OMG - next you'll be telling me that what I hear about black men is not true.

yeah, sorry, Chelle, to burst ur bubble.

We aren't all hung like freakishly huge stallions. Some are bigger.

Some can last for an eternity.

Me? For 2.3 seconds, I'm a raging tiger. Growlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll!!

Chelle B.
on 12/9/08 12:23 am

On December 9, 2008 at 8:14 AM Pacific Time, Dalexis wrote:

On December 9, 2008 at 7:48 AM Pacific Time, Chelle B. wrote:

On December 9, 2008 at 7:31 AM Pacific Time, Dalexis wrote:

On December 9, 2008 at 7:28 AM Pacific Time, Dedee wrote:

I love my people....I love me some BLACK people.....I don't mean just BLACK Americans.....I love the BLACK race of all ethnicities....with that said,

I sure as hell don't identify with all the crazy mfers ~WHEW~ and why do people think ~I~ should just because I am of the Black race???? ~roll eyes~

So, I work in a corporate environment.....you presence should be business casual and neat....why this mfer walking around with his hair not combed and they looking at me and talking about it.....hell WHAT?! My hair is combed (well wrapped) under my dayum wig....how da hell I'm 'spose to identify with that schitt???? My husby is always GROOMED and presentable....and so is our son....Dedee don't do rageddy ~roll eyes~

Handle that schitt yoself....that is NOT my job!

You know to some pink people, we're all monolithic. We all speak alike, act alike, can play basketball, love chit'lins, etc.

Just ignore it, roll your eyes (as usual) and keep it moving, like i know ur doing anyway. lol

OMG - next you'll be telling me that what I hear about black men is not true.

yeah, sorry, Chelle, to burst ur bubble.

We aren't all hung like freakishly huge stallions. Some are bigger.

Some can last for an eternity.

Me? For 2.3 seconds, I'm a raging tiger. Growlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll!!

I wonder why it is so HARD for me to concentrate on work when I check on my BAF family? Must be those raging images planted in my brain!

Be careful, or you may find yourself in my novel...

Dalexis
on 12/9/08 12:27 am - Brooklyn, NY

RNY on 11/27/06

Chelle, admit it, babe. Ur just nassy. LOL.

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

Chelle B.
on 12/9/08 11:14 am

I'm a naive, innocent, angel who doesn't understand half of what she is saying.

Be careful, or you may find yourself in my novel...

Stacee Y.
on 12/8/08 11:33 pm - Florissant, MO

RNY on 02/28/06

Dee I totally feel you on this. I have a girl that I eat lunch with sometimes that is walking around here with a weave that looks like a matted mop on her head and it is blonde and black, I want to say something to her, but I don't want to offend her. She is kind of "ghetto proper" and I hear folks talk about her head and I want to tell her but don't know how. I may try to say it in a joking way today....like girl your hair gettin kinda fuzzy, when you gonna take it down....i don't know.....it just isn't becoming. Our job is kind of lax, business casual as well, but it just looks a mess.....

BEFORE NOW

Dedee
on 12/8/08 11:45 pm - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

I am so not addressing that schitt.....that is him and his wop-sided fro LOL

It's mirrors all through this ****** he is NOT blind! He knows his hair needs coming ~roll eyes~

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

SistahGirl
on 12/8/08 11:39 pm - Pueblo, CO

Lap Band on 10/07/08

Gurrrrrrrrrl, when I worked for IBM, there were only 4 of "us" in that office. One sister used to come in, clothes wrinkled, hair jacked up, and not smelling too fresh with a gold toof too! Me and another well-groomed sister took her to lunch and told her about herself. She wanted to go with me to customer sites, etc, so she could learn and get promoted. I told her flat out that until she got it together, I wouldn't let her go anywhere with me. She was a little upset, a few tears shed, but she kinda stepped it up. I prayed a long time before deciding on the lunch thing. It helped that it wasn't just me that noticed it. Pink people were asking me "what's up with Vicki?" I told them that they should ask her if they really wanted to know, or to help....

A woman's heart must be so hidden in GOD that a man must first seek GOD in order to find her"

Trish

Dedee
on 12/8/08 11:47 pm - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

You had the opportunity to tell her cause she wanted a favor....that's different....I'm not touching that with a 10-foot pole!

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

SistahGirl
on 12/8/08 11:58 pm - Pueblo, CO

Lap Band on 10/07/08

On December 9, 2008 at 7:47 AM Pacific Time, Dedee wrote:

You had the opportunity to tell her cause she wanted a favor....that's different....I'm not touching that with a 10-foot pole!

Huh? We prolly would've done the lunch meeting even if she hadn't asked me for some creative mentoring... Oh well

A woman's heart must be so hidden in GOD that a man must first seek GOD in order to find her"

Trish

Dedee
on 12/9/08 12:01 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

Bwahahaha, if it was a girl I might feel different.

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

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