Piggyback off of two earlier posts
Unlike being called the "N" word. You can fight against the emotional aspect of it but it is a losing battle to fight against the physical. I don't care how much white, indian, german, french or whatever blood you are mixed with. When you mix it with black....white people see black. Can't change that. When a white person calls you the "N" word it effect you....period
The same thing goes with being called fat...... 202 lbs later. If ANYBODY calls me fat it effects me. Whether you are joking or not. I work to hard not to be.
For those of you that seem to think you are not in the same boat with the rest of us on BAF.....well what difference does it make since you wouldn't be on BAF anyway.....right?
The only person that is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Live while you are alive
Tricie
This isn't about anyone thinking they are better off or worse off than anyone else. The question basically came from a couple of previous posts regarding words that some see as hurtful, while others, seemingly, do not. Nothing more, nothing less.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
You may not have meant for it come off sounding condescending...but you did......at least to me
We all here on BAF are in the same boat. We may have different row positions. However, we are all somewhat working towards the same goal.
You are a beautiful girl.......why?
The only person that is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Live while you are alive
Tricie
Maybe you have some things you need to work through, but I don't think you should judge me.
The point of my post was that words only offend people that hold weigh to those words. I do not hold anything towards the words fat or nicca.
ETA: Thank you for the compliment, I appreciate it.
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
Tricie it's all good. You have a good evening also sis!
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
