Is Fat a FOUR letter word to you?

Yea - I said FOUR...... meaning is it a bad word - one you would NEVER use.....

I see it kinda like '******' or 'ni**er'..... you wouldn't say it MOST times, but there are SOME times that it fits.......

just like Chris Rock in 'Kill the Messenger' - if you rockin Gwen Stefani at a red light and don't move - I'm callin you a '******'!!! LOL

if I am talking about a shiftless, stupid, crazy mofo.... it's 'that nicca there'.....

and IF it's a situation where I am hot and don't see any other immediate attribute to get onto  - it's YOU FAT *******!!!!!

So - do you still use it - or is it totally 'off limits'?????

If I am decribing someone, I will try to use the word obese.

If someone **** me off and they just happened to be obese...when I am talking about it, i might call them fat, dont mean any harm but at the moment that is how I was thinking. Yes it is a four letter word that fit for that moment.  Does that makes sense?

Yep!  Makes PERFECT sense!  Hell - I use whatever comes to mind at the moment - I have been known to throw a 'you skinny mutha*****a' out or a ' you light azz sommabiotch' ya know - just whatever!!!

Naw, I don't see it as a bad word.  Crazy part I like that word better than Obese.  When I first heard the term Obese, I was a shorty and I dind't know what it meant, but I had an ideal what it meant simply by the way he used it.  He wasn't talking about me, but I felt bad for the person he was talking about.

For some reason, I grew to accept the word Fat and just like the term *** if you hear it enough, you start to accept it.

Hell I'm FAT,  but I'm still the shyt. ((Insert Dirt of Shoulder emoticon)) here.

I use it.  I call Andy Reid (coach of the Eagles) Fat Andy when he calls stupid plays.  Or I've been known to tell somebody to shut their fat ass up.  (I know, pot kettle but so what lol).  I don't think it's the word, I think it's the way you use it.  I am fat...  that's why I had surgery.  Obese is probably more PC though.

funny you say this cause I felt soooooo bad yesterday for the thoughts in my head.

I volunteer as an usher at the Civic Center and Fox.  I worked a show yesterday and was assigned to the curtain meaning I can't move and I basically pass the patron off to an usher to take them to their seat.  By take them to their seat I mean, the patron is to never be in front of you-defies the point of an escort with a flashlight.  They are also not to go down by themselves in the dark.
Anywho, one of the chicks on my door was obese...the hunched over snails pace kind of obese.  Her azz aint wanna do  sh*t!!!!  And when she did, she slowly sauntered paces behind the patrons and immediately turned around and inched her way back up to the door as soon as the patron slowed down-like "f*ck it, they found their seat"  I had to keep pushing the thought of "fat azz, why you even do this job?"  out of my head.  I will not use it for name calling purposes (I prefer ***** or douchebag) but I do struggle with the thoughts sometimes when someone seems trifflin per the stereotypical "fat guidelines"  but I know that they are struggling just like I was and I don't know what steps they may be making to change it, so I'm constantly at war in my head and correcting myself for thinking so negatively.

I've never thought about it....I don't call people fat though i'm quick to say ***** or something like that........

***** isn't a bad word to me though its unproffesional however not a bad word to me.

No I just dont feel comfortable calling someone out like that

Fat is a bad word to me.  I don't call people fat but I think it.  I thought and said it about myself so to tell the truth, mentally yes the bad word fat is used by me for people and things in a negative way. 

Guess I still have a few flaws.  LOL

I don't like the word fat at all. I think it is a degrading word. There are so many other words that can be used in it' place that are less offefnsive. Call me fat; YOU MUST be lookin to scrap! period.