Hate is such a strong word.....

*Melting Chocolate*
on 12/8/08 1:08 am - Miami, FL

Girl...brushin that "dirt" offa muh shoulders!!! LOL. 

That beach was BEAUTIFUL yesterday!!! But then all of a dayum sudden....BAM bout 7p.m the temp did a major dip....girl it was bout 48-50 degrees....thats fur coat weather for us.

 

But today...were back to our regularly scheduled heat!!

           Day of surgy:396  Current: 242  Goal: 200

ktjajj
on 12/8/08 1:01 am - Buffalo, NY
Hi Melting Chocolate  I know how you feel. Please see my post on When does it ever end? Why can't people just mind theirs and let you mind yours? All up in the kool-aid and don't even know the flavor. Just continue to do you and what makes you happy.  Don't let it ruin your day.
*Melting Chocolate*
on 12/8/08 1:10 am - Miami, FL
Hey darlin...imma look for that post. folx really need to learn that they to can find happiness....their own!! They got it on sale for $19.99 at walmart!!! LOL

           Day of surgy:396  Current: 242  Goal: 200

PrettyPlum
on 12/8/08 1:07 am
MC,  from the pictures, its evident that you both are " in the moment "  and loving it. 

Do NOT waste a second of time on folks who want to try to steal your shine. 

They arent worth it 

Wishing you continued happiness !



*Melting Chocolate*
on 12/8/08 1:15 am - Miami, FL
I'm sooo glad you said "in the moment". I've even had "hateration" from my friends. They tryin to pyss on my parade because its a fairly new relationship (5 months)we'v known each other for much longer.....but as I've told them....I'm....WERE "living in the moment".

If we dont last past christmas day....we will still be greatful for the happiness we brought each other during THIS time!!!

           Day of surgy:396  Current: 242  Goal: 200

PrettyPlum
on 12/8/08 1:32 am
Girl,  please when I first met my sweetie ------  friends, acquaintances, coworkers, just everybody  was like " why is she so happy all of a sudden  "

They just had to know who & what  I was doing,  it almost killed them NOT to know.
****pt my mouth shut and continued to live in the moment for months without a peep)

Then they found out I had a ladyfriend and swore it was some kind of teenage rebellious phase I was going through at almost 30.  

Newsflash....the phase done lasted 8 yrs and counting........

The sweetest and best way to get miserable folks goat is to keep on SMILING

Live it and love it pretty lady !
LuciousLA & Babylapband
on 12/8/08 1:19 am - Greenbelt, MD
Lap Band on 02/13/06 with
I am sorry that happened to you but hold your head up, you have nothing to be ashame of, and if they really believe what they was saying, they would say it from their reg profile, on the main board and say the hell with what ever anyone say, folks like that are not haters,  they are mean azz folks.
Her Royal Flyness
on 12/8/08 1:20 am
Funny how the people with the hell bound hearts do the most judgin'  As if they won't be sitting right next to the people they're throwing stones at----from their glass houses.

I was reading this big ass book one time, can't think of the name of it right now, but I know it's required reading for christians.  Anywho, this book is kinna cool, it basically tells you how to act and has all these quotes in it and there was one that said something to the effect of  "judge not lest ye be judged"  I'm not the greatest christian, but from what I gathered that was like one of the most important parts of the book, I wonder why folks don't get that?

Anywho, pray for em girl.  The book said something about that too.

It is never too late to be what you might have been

~George Eliot
*Melting Chocolate*
on 12/8/08 1:34 am - Miami, FL
lol...this "big arse book".....would you be talkin bout the one with the black, and sometimes red writing in it!!!......with chapters and verses!!!  If so, I think I ran across that one muh self a time or two!!

           Day of surgy:396  Current: 242  Goal: 200

free2beme37
on 12/8/08 1:26 am, edited 12/8/08 1:26 am
Well....I'm hatin.......but, not like you think.



You two look great together.........
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