OT...First date advice...how to not go into sex (talk or act)
On December 8, 2008 at 7:28 AM Pacific Time, Klassy -N- Sassy wrote:
Good Advice MIZ D......D - ok that depends on the situation of the marriage and all the cards that go into play as far as a relationship after a failed marriage that is NOT always the case! you don't know what has caused the marriage to fail AND how long the marriage was failing...many times a marriage failed wayyy before you actually divorced and you know that in your mind
Brenda.....I would communicate these feelings to mr man....let him know what you want out of this and tell him you are NOT looking for the SEX partner kinda thing unless that is what you want now D was right on on that!
As always a response that lives up to your screen name. Thanks a lot!!!
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
There was an episode of Family Guy where Brian met a girl he liked alot and normally he wants sex early and often in the relationship, but with this woman, he wanted to take things slow and have something very meaningful with her even if she was giving him signs that she wanted sex.
After 3 weeks of dating, he still didn't make a move and she ended up doing his neighbor because she needed to get laid.
Now Brenda, I would seriously want to take the topic away from sex. I'm sure you guys talk about other things as well, but if it keeps getting back to sex, will that be all you guys have if you decide to start a relationship. In my personal experience, if I have sex too quick with someone, they fall into the "Friend Zone" and become mad cool with me, but it won't go no further than that. Since then, I've learned to first, seek someone that I actually enjoy talking to, spending time and talk about sex when appropriate. Now I love sex just like the next person and it's a big part to a relationship to me, but I don't think the actual foundation should be built around sex, but a apart of the construction. If you've found a potention life partner, you guys won't be banging forever.
Then again, Viagra and Lube ain't never stop an Old show. get it grandma.
After 3 weeks of dating, he still didn't make a move and she ended up doing his neighbor because she needed to get laid.
Now Brenda, I would seriously want to take the topic away from sex. I'm sure you guys talk about other things as well, but if it keeps getting back to sex, will that be all you guys have if you decide to start a relationship. In my personal experience, if I have sex too quick with someone, they fall into the "Friend Zone" and become mad cool with me, but it won't go no further than that. Since then, I've learned to first, seek someone that I actually enjoy talking to, spending time and talk about sex when appropriate. Now I love sex just like the next person and it's a big part to a relationship to me, but I don't think the actual foundation should be built around sex, but a apart of the construction. If you've found a potention life partner, you guys won't be banging forever.
Then again, Viagra and Lube ain't never stop an Old show. get it grandma.
On December 8, 2008 at 7:43 AM Pacific Time, TheJuice wrote:
There was an episode of Family Guy where Brian met a girl he liked alot and normally he wants sex early and often in the relationship, but with this woman, he wanted to take things slow and have something very meaningful with her even if she was giving him signs that she wanted sex.After 3 weeks of dating, he still didn't make a move and she ended up doing his neighbor because she needed to get laid.
Now Brenda, I would seriously want to take the topic away from sex. I'm sure you guys talk about other things as well, but if it keeps getting back to sex, will that be all you guys have if you decide to start a relationship. In my personal experience, if I have sex too quick with someone, they fall into the "Friend Zone" and become mad cool with me, but it won't go no further than that. Since then, I've learned to first, seek someone that I actually enjoy talking to, spending time and talk about sex when appropriate. Now I love sex just like the next person and it's a big part to a relationship to me, but I don't think the actual foundation should be built around sex, but a apart of the construction. If you've found a potention life partner, you guys won't be banging forever.
Then again, Viagra and Lube ain't never stop an Old show. get it grandma.
Working on me - want to be better in everyway not just physically!!! Its a process no time to judge or be judged!!!!
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