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Anyone else in the why bother mentality?

Dedee
on 12/4/08 3:45 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
See, I wish MarJean could reply to you....she was 43 never married, no kids....and happy with her WHO....she loved to say "it is what it is" when I talk about schitt....marriage life versus single....she never complained about it.....she simply would say, "I've loved and been loved, hurt, and caused hurt." To her, everything happened in its time...."it is what it is."

Hang in there, and continue to love YOU....everything will happen in it's own time ~smooches~

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

caramel_2
on 12/4/08 3:58 am - New Haven, CT

Taw,

After assessing everyone's comments I have this to say...I neva was the type where I wanted the whole dream wedding with a tall black MOFO...lol ...if I had it to do all over again i prolly would'nt what I miss is the time to do what ever the hell I want to do with out answering to any one but me.  I love hubby to death but if this does not work out u won't catch me going at it again.  It's a lot of work and constant training!! I wish I was a little older when I did it instead of being 28 or was it 29..oh who cares..what I am saying is don't be blue about the situation you and your son are happy together and that's all that matters on top of the fact that you can do whatever the hell you wanna do when u want to and look at this way at least when you make a check by phone you know when the ****'s gonna clear!! (ie. refer to a post I made about 2 weeks ago about hubby)LOL

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!


 

Dedee
on 12/4/08 4:31 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
I've been married 8 years, but with Phil for 15....I will be 35 in a few days....can you say all my adult life ~roll eyes~ and I am just now enjoying my marriage.  We grew. We grew apart. Together. Matured.

I say no one should marry until they are 35 LOL

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

caramel_2
on 12/4/08 4:45 am - New Haven, CT
Hi 5 Dedee!! btw your new avie is innocent and cute!

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!


 

(deactivated member)
on 12/4/08 4:02 am

I have been with my husband since I was eighteen years old and just want to add that there are some marriages that are awesome.  I actually have one of them.  So there are positives to being single and married.  One big positive is I have some one for the last ten years who has had my back and loves me.  So each it own I am actually a advocate for marriage because I seen the ups and downs of it.  I do not know what it is like to be single as an adult and I really do not think I want to find out I am to darn comfortable. 

 

Blessings :)

Jus ChanJ N ME
on 12/4/08 4:04 am
Taw,

Speaking from a woman that has been together with the same man for over 23 years and married for almost 19, I can totally understand where you are coming from.  Sometimes I wish I could be single.  Not because I want to date or anything like that, I just would like to be able to be with just ME sometimes.  No children, No husband, just ME. 

But then there are those times when I thank my creator for making a man just for me.  My husband is great in his own way.  I love him and wouldnt trade him in for the world.  On those days when I am feeling down and out and I go home, he is there with his arms and ears stretched out to hold and hear me.  That, I wouldnt give up for the world.

Its always something in me that makes me want the other world, but then there is that something in me that loves what I have. 

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 12/4/08 4:12 am
  somebody hand me a soda to settle my stomach!!!!!!!

LOL - happily married mofos make my skin crawl.............

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

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Jus ChanJ N ME
on 12/4/08 5:06 am
LOL....Shut up Mack...LOL

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SistahGirl
on 12/4/08 4:22 am - Pueblo, CO
On December 4, 2008 at 12:04 PM Pacific Time, Jus ChanJin Me wrote:
Taw,

Speaking from a woman that has been together with the same man for over 23 years and married for almost 19, I can totally understand where you are coming from.  Sometimes I wish I could be single.  Not because I want to date or anything like that, I just would like to be able to be with just ME sometimes.  No children, No husband, just ME. 

But then there are those times when I thank my creator for making a man just for me.  My husband is great in his own way.  I love him and wouldnt trade him in for the world.  On those days when I am feeling down and out and I go home, he is there with his arms and ears stretched out to hold and hear me.  That, I wouldnt give up for the world.

Its always something in me that makes me want the other world, but then there is that something in me that loves what I have. 

  Exactly, Jus Chan... You da woman!



A woman's heart must be so hidden in GOD that a man must first seek GOD in order to find her"    

Trish

Jus ChanJ N ME
on 12/4/08 5:08 am
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