How do you look sexy?(need advice)
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely who others think you are!
Ok all, the old bird is checking in (51), this puts me in serious Mama mode!! Baby girl you look real good, sexy is up in da mind and the dress--feel it, show it and be IT! The most important things are as follows:
1 YOUR SMILE IS UNREAL many would kill for it. Looking younger beats the hell out of the other way.
2. YOU have acheived much, be proud and just don't worry about the look, it will take a lot less work that you have already done.
Smiple things to help:
A tailor can only do so much with a garment, they can work to meet the curves of your body type , but can't fully recut a garment down 3 or 4 sizes, a larger size will have a fuller cut in the bust line or butt area of a pant. I am only 5'2" and pants (22) will do the funky crotch thing on me. the legs are flappy and the inseam is at my knee (flat butt).
Trust yourself, if you think it's to big, then it just might be.
Grow in the eyebrows some, remember your face shape has changed so you might need to experiment with a new look, this will let you reshape. The MAC counter is great butt...I found some of then to be nuts. I passed on the one with purple glitter eyeshadow and went with the one that looked sane(NOT). They must have done each other cuz that girl had me looking like MiMi from Drew Carey Show!
Makeup should enhance your natural beauty, which you have plenty of, remember you'er not headed to clown school and you aint trying to hide from the law.
Last but not least. Your husband will make you feel all you need to. Married now 31 years and the first time he saw me I was marching in front of the band 114lbs, close to naked with some knee length platform boots. Since that time there has been babies, fat, scars, cancer, one breast, chemo bald, and of course fat, cause that crap just won't get the message!! Nothing and nobody else can make me feel the way he does. Hear what he's saying, you two look happy together and that is where your sexy is. Let it flow and the world will wonder why you not only look happy but hot!
