Clothing Changes

AMEN!!! I totally know how you feel. Being single while going through this whole change process sucks! My body image issues are playing mind games... I met a great guy in Dallas who happens to live in Phoenix. Not sure of his reaction when I told him about the surgery and all, but we did exchange numbers and all... I got a guy at work flirting with me, but not sure if its just being funny or serious. Very confusing!!! I still feel very self consicious about everything, lonely... just wishing to find Mr. Right. After my last relationship that lasted 4 years and then we split a few months before surgery, I am kinda afraid to get back out there. Lots of double standards when it comes to health and looks. And the sagging at 31 years old is not too pretty. My best friend and I both agreed to put ourselves out there more because sitting at her places watching movies won't get us guys... and the internet has been pretty unsuccessful so far.

Thanks Nicole for responding! Glad I'm not alone