I'm so sorry to hear this. My sister has been fighting breast cancer for 5 years.. Here is what you can do. You can simple things that will mean the world to her such as: listen to her, hold her hand, hire a maid for her house/apartment, take her on a trip to Vegas, continue to treat her as a living person. Somehow after reading your posts, I know you will have no trouble with any of that. My youngest child, my daughter now 15 was diagnosed with a deadly leukemia at age 3. The doc pretty much told us to go home and plan her funeral. Her only treatment choice was a bone marrow transplant and even those only had a 30 percent success rate with her leukemia (juvenile myleomonocytic leukemia). "Friends" dropped us like dirt. I now some of that was not knowing what to say to the parents of a dying child, but some considered us tainted. We found out who our true friends were during that period. We went with the BMT and my daughter is alive and well today. I hope someday to be a true friend to someone else in need. That has nothing to do with god. It has to do with being human. Here are some resources for your son's fiance. http://listserv.acor.org/archives/breast-onc.html online support group http://www.acor.org/clinical.html information on clinical trials. I wish all of you the very best. Barb B.

Hello everyone, My sons fiancee was just diagnosed with Stagell breast cancer. She is only 32 years old. I am sick over this whole thing. My son is 26. Do you know how hard it is to see your grown son crying? My poor broken heart. She finds out today what kind of cancer it is and how far it has spread. They removed most of the lymph glands on her left side and found cancer. My question..........when a person is faced with a crisis like this.......since we choose not to have religion to fall back on........what can I do? Bargain with Fate? Promise to believe? Wish on a star? I'm lost. willby

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