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As for PT, yup. I have had it five different times - done ultra sound, iontophoesis, casting, supports, swimming, stretches, you name it, I have had it perpetrated on me ;)
It bums me out, as I was at a smaller size when it all happened - so I have very quickly gained back the original 135 pounds lost - and THEN SOME... Ah boogers!
The buggaboo with my leg is that I have been told it is doubtful much could be done if & when I get to a "normal" weight, but my thoughts are: If I have less weight pushing down, maybe the pain will be tolerable. Sad, but I figure I was able to make it 14 years with my ex husband & 8 of those HIS MOTHER lived with us -- I can stand a LOT of pain (ha ha ha!!!)
The big problem with me - I have ALWAYS been a "large land mammal," and really forget I should not do a lot of the activities I do ;) Oh well -- I guess it will be some other 300 pound woman on waterskis!!! Thanks for chiming in -- and I hope you get your pain resolved!
Brenda : )~
I have meniscus that's torn in two places in my right knee and the pain was gut-wrenching before I started therapy. Most of my exercises are done lying down, but it's made the hugest difference in my ability to walk painlessly. (Cortisone also helped, but as you noted, it's time-sensitive.)
My left knee is also screwed up -- the last 30 lbs. did it to me...but I have gotten some help, even though the ortho surgeon said arthroscopic would do no good and the only thing that will permanently solve the problem is a knee replacement.
Just thought I'd mention it. Apologies if you've gone down this route before. But it might be worth a shot.
Lowering the absorption does make the body less efficient, and the DS does that more than the RNY does. Most DSers have 2 BMs a day---but most of us have them first thing in the AM, so it's not like we're on the toilet all day. (*grin*)
No one really knows exactly how much malabsorption of protein and complex carbs there is with any form of WLS, and I'm not certain there's an accurate way to test it. The fat per centages I mentioned were pretty easy to do, with a fecal fat test. (This is sometimes done on 'normal' people for various reasons.) It's estimated that DSers only absorb about half the protein and about 60% of the complex carbs we eat, but the RNYers seem to absorb more than we do, having less bypassed. The protein 'goals' DSers shoot for are 100 grams a day, minimum, while the RNYers shoot for 60 grams. A 'normal' healthy women should get about 50-60 grams, so---I take that to mean that the RNYers are absorbing nearly all the protein they eat, or at least their doctors think so. (*grin*)
Sometimes my pain IS visible to the naked eye---or it should be, when I'm hobbling across the parking lot. (*grin*) Sometimes I can walk normally, but sometimes I look like Chester from Gunsmoke.
Hang onto the optimism! And seriously, do come visit the DS board, and www.dsfacts.com
You may still decide the RNY is best for you, but make certain you know ALL the facts about both it and the DS before you go under the knife. There's a ****load (pun intended) of misinformation out there about the DS, and sadly a lot of it comes from medical 'professionals' who simply don't know the facts. Even more sadly, some of it comes from WL surgeons who don't have the skills to do the DS, or the inclination to learn.
I will say that the DS is NOT for everyone. It DOES require life-long diligence in taking vitamins and supplements, and getting regular lab work. (Of course, the RNY does, too, but it'll take you longer to die from neglect with the RNY. *grin*) And since it's less well-known, each of us has to be our own health-care advocate---but it sounds to me like you'd be ideal DS material.
I turn 43 next month, so I feel as you do, need to take the weight down significantly, to relieve some of the pain. I realize that even having my body under compression all my life may have strengthened my bones & muscles, but the joints really aren't built to carry this much weight. Too bad I did not get serious sooner.
HUGS to you MsBatt! I am sorry about your constant pain, too. Sucks, and no one can see it with the naked eye, so I just try to grin & bear it. Sadly, it is the one co-morbidity that cannot be denied that is substantially caused by the weight alone. Diabetes and high blood pressure (etc.) can happen to average, "normal" weight folks, but it is seriously a matter of time when joints eventually wear out. I spent DECADES with my head in the sand -- I had been "healthy," strong, and fat. Time showed my arrogance. Hindsight is a powerful thing. Optimism is also powerful...
B : )~
I am SO sorry you're in such pain. I have a lot of chronic pain myself, but not as bad as yours. I will say that losing weight certainly HELPED, but I still take double the 'recommended' dose of NSAIDs and Tramadol every day. (Double NSAIDs, not Tramadol.) The first 75-80 pounds did the most good, but every pound since has helped, too. I'm still putting off hacing both my knees replaced---they tell me the longer I can hold out the better, since the replacement knees have a limited lifespan and I'm only 52. At this point, my feet are really giving me more pain than my knees, and there's nothing they can do about that.
Nope, RNY, for a number of reasons, I actually do need to limit absorption. I have chronic constipation and my body holds onto EVERYTHING until completely used up. I am looking forward to "voiding solid waste" more than once every OTHER day (sometimes three days without elimination). Sounds blunt, but I have done a lot of research - I have a lot of medical factors against me, including too much iron in my blood.
I have tried Lidoderm, nitroglycerin (for improved blood flow to affected area), Keprocaine, ketoprofen, currently Volatren... My "****tail" of 800 mg IB with THREE Extra Strength Tylenol chasers, Oxycodone (my FAVORITE), Tramadol, Nabumetone, I know I am forgetting a few, but you get the idea ;)
The two latest Tramadol & Nabumetone is my attempt to find some relief without going the "hardcore" route. Oxycodone is fabulous for me -- actually like "speed", but I want to keep away from true Opiates -- hence Tramadol. The pain is incredible, but until I lose a significant amount of weight, I am trying to find something to make movement tolerable. I also take Chondroitan, MSM, and Glucosamine. I probably have the most expensive pee of any of my friends, but I am willing to take anything to make my situation better -- well, actually, NOT anything - I won't use illicit drugs or alcohol to bring relief ;)
I have had an Upper GI to make sure there is no damage from the YEARS of NSAID use, and I don't even have a hiatil hernia. When I busted up my leg, I had it casted twice, given lifts for my shoes, outfitted myself with superior foot ware, but I have gotten fatter & the pain grows worse. I have seen four specialists, the prognosis - 95% FAILURE rate for surgery. This, even IF I lost all my weight. But, I keep trying to move forward.
There are days all I want to do is cry. I feel like giving up some moments, just to pick myself up, dust myself off, and tell myself to be a "big girl". My primary doctor says she doesn't know how I do it, I just laugh -- "I take pain well!" Both times I was in labor, I had nurses tell me I couldn't be -- until I was examined -- showing I was dilated to 6 cm!!! After seven years of constant pain, I am just feeling tired of the battle.
Thanks for the reply!!! Yup, I have tried a lot. Guess I am stubborn :)~
Brenda : )~
Have you tried the Lidoderm pain patches? Very good for localized pain. I also use a cream called keprocaine.
Brena : )~
Hi LadyBug!
Congrats on the weight loss. Regarding your RA journey. Did you get copies of your actual lab work?? Almost 6 years ago I was in tremendous joint pain but it was sporadic and it would affect me in really odd ways. The pain would show up in one knee and stop and 2 mins later it would move the other knee. I thought I was losing my mind as this seemed insane that the pain would jump from one joint to another (no pain left behind in the original joint).
Saw a RA doctor who ran the "usual" tests. I asked for a copy (everyone should get their labs and learn what is normal for themselves). The inital response from my doc was that I had just typical osteoarthritis. So I get my lab results and start researching each line item. One line item was not normal. I called and asked the nurse what this line item meant cos from my research it looked like a rare form of RA...she pulled my chart and said something was not right, she would get with the doc and call me back. Within 10 mins she called and set me up to see him. They had overlooked that one item. Doc apologized profusely and I absolutely adore him as he has taken good care of me for 6 years now. I have RA and another rare form or it called Palendromic RA.
Before my surgery in May I was taking methotrexate, plaquenil and Embrel.
I am not taking anything right now except the occasional vicodin for pain at night.
My immune system is non existent right now after the surgery and so my doc told me last week to hold off on any of them until I just can't take it anymore. So far so good.
My doc has told me that out of all 3 meds it would be good if I just used Enbrel. Methotrexate apparently has long term side effects but when you can't function then you have to choose which evil you can live with so you may have to take all three.
Get your labs and start researching all of it. Btw, as long as you are on Plaquenil the doc will request an eye test every 6 months. There is a rare outside chance of losing your eyesight due to Plaquenil. My eye doc said it's extremely rare but nonetheless they have to test you.
I also have a compromised immune system with pernicious anemia and no thyroid so I have a lot going on...PM me if you want sometime.
Best wishes that you can get control of the pain and get some relief.
Cheers, Tee