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NavyWife-Mom-of-5
on 11/1/08 8:03 am - Beautiful, CA
Topic: RE: I am Ron lester the actor that was 508lbs. You might know me from Varsity Blues
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you!  Don't let others bring you down.. Just because you are an actor, does not mean that you are not a human being with feelings.  Your story is inspiring whether your an actor or not.. For me, it is more moving cause most actors/celebs try to hide things like this. It is nice  that you have opened up to us, and are telling your story just like every one of us. 

I am bummed that I was not able to meet you in LA, (being military, and not knowing anyone here to watch my kids, and hubby was not able to get the time off, I had  to stay with my 5 kids) but maybe you can come back again sometime.   I would really enjoy hearing from you..


So keep that head up, and don't let anyone bring you down..
People like me really appreciate you.

Hugs,
Jenn

horserider0146
on 10/30/08 12:23 pm - River Falls, WI
Topic: RE: just wondering...
Reversals are not something I would personally mess with unless necessary like mine is. I have to have a complete reversal of my RNY and then I am having the lap band put on. Almost all patients that have just a reversal regain at least a portion if nto all of their weight. Did you really go through all this jsut to gain it all back. I have to have a reversal to try and correct a complication that I have had since day 1, vagal nerve injury causing severe gastroparesis and dysmotility of the intestinal tract. I have no motility. I have chronic and constant paina dn nausea. I live every day sick. I spend at least 2 weeks  a year in a hospital. I have surgery almost every year. Please look really hard at having the reversal before you do it. I would suggest seeing a bariatric therapist like the previous poster said. They will help you through your fears and teach you that it is really not as bad as you fear. Personally, and I am not trying to scare you cause you would alreay know if you had this problem, I cannot eat meat, fish, dairy, protein shakes, pasta, rice, or any very dense food. If I do, throw up for hours on end cause I have no motility to move it along. So I have a feeding tube in my remnant. I still throw up on a daily sometiems every meal basis. This is why the need for reversal cause theya re trying to save my esophogus. Please look long and hard at the reversal before you do it. Good luck

horserider0146
on 10/30/08 12:07 pm - River Falls, WI
Topic: RE: Anyone else out there that isn't enjoying their WLS?
Read my profile. I am asked the question almost daily if I regret my wls. I tell them it depends on the day you ask me. I am in costant pain and nausea. I am at the dr more than I care to admit. I am a frequent flyer at my local er (they know me by name when I come in no matter what shift or day). I am on a phone basis with my surgeon (he has called me before at midnight because I was having problems). I felt healthier witht he weight and who knows what would have happened if I left it on. Now I am facing a reversal of my surgery and put toa lap band. So I know what you are going through. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone out there.

Alannah
Laura G.
on 10/30/08 6:37 am - Tallahassee, FL
Topic: RE: Does anyone wish they had never gone through WLS?
I had my surgery in Sept of 2004.  I went from 315 to 198 but have recently started putting the weight back on.  I hate it because I've lost that satisfied feeling I got after the surgery.
BUT - would I not have it?  I would have it every year if I could.  I'm back up to 245, I do have problems with anemia but every day has been worth it.  Before my surgery I had diabetes and heart palpitations, high blood pressure....I couldn't do anything without feeling like I was going to pass out.  Even if I gain back every pound, the years I've had since then have been like a dream, problems are going to happen....I still wouldn't trade that surgery for anything in the world.  NO, i do NOT regret it AT ALL.
KCooper22
on 10/29/08 10:12 am - Manchester, MD
Topic: RE: just wondering...
I know exactly how you feel.  I will be 10 weeks out on Friday, but still regret having the RNY.  I have done some research and Dr. John Husted has done over 100 reversals.  The problem is no doctor seems to want to do a reversal until you are 1 year out.  I am going to give it the 1 year and if I still feel the same, I am going to have it reversed.  I also read about the reversals in Europe, but I have no idea how to find a surgeon there.  I'm still going to explore that option as well.  You are not alone and don't let anyone convince you that you are crazy for feeling the way you do.  Hang in there.  PM me if you want to talk.
TeresaJay
on 10/28/08 4:34 am - Greensboro, NC
Topic: RE: just wondering...
My suggestion would be to get hold of a bariatric therapist that can help you weed out your phobias from genuine concern. You are early out and might just be going through what they consider buyer's remorse, which I hear goes away in a month or two usually.
I can tell you that I wish I had made some decision at 25 and not be sitting here at 36 fatter than ever with the onset of health problems and missed out on the past 10 years. Best of Luck to you.
BTW most insurance companies do cover a takedown of surgery if there are complications or insignificant weightloss.
"There is a skinny woman trapped inside of me. I can usually shut her up with cookies and chips but today I am setting her free" 
Sarah V.
on 10/27/08 4:31 am
Topic: RE: Do you regret the type of wls you had?
Can you provide a link to where the lapband creators said this?  I'd really like to read that.  Guess I should know if I'm gonna have to have my hardware removed in 9 years.

Lap Band September 2007 / Slip discovered March 2014 after significant regain / Revised to VSG April 29, 2014


 

Sarah V.
on 10/27/08 4:26 am
Topic: RE: Antidepressants and Gastric Band
Geez, woman...you're everywhere! 

Lap Band September 2007 / Slip discovered March 2014 after significant regain / Revised to VSG April 29, 2014


 

bella419
on 10/27/08 3:24 am
Topic: just wondering...

has anyone had/or known anyone who has reversed their RNY?
ever since the second before i was wheeled into surgery i was thinking i shouldnt be doing this...
now its too late...
i am terrifed about my stomach no longer working (old stomach) and my intestines dying...
i also dont know if i want to be scared to eat for the rest of my life... for fear of adverse reactions or damaging my stomach...
i even asked my insurance company already if they pay...
my doctor said it is reversible but he has never done it...
so i wont be looking to him for reversal...
but i really dont think i want this for the rest of my life... im only 25
in europe... they do RNY on patients and reverse them in a year or two to try and avoid major problems in the long run...
i know im early out & i will probably be yelled at for asking now... but i am losing... i feel fine (other than constantly terrified)... and i can eat everything on my list so far with out problems... (im only on 3oz meals so protein isnt at the point it should be yet... but it will be when i move on to the next stage)
i seriously want to look into reversal (for the future)... and i need some input...
it will be GREATLY appreciated...

 

kodiakbear33
on 10/27/08 1:00 am - Carp, Canada
RNY on 01/20/09 with
Topic: RE: I am Ron lester the actor that was 508lbs. You might know me from Varsity Blues
To the person not being able to go to his site, simply delete 1 of the "W"'s in the web address as there were too many added...

Good for you Ron in all your accomplishments...People who bash you or make you feel less of a the person that you are and truly deserve to be are only jealous. Good for you for trying to make the deciders more aware of the dangers surrounding this surgery...

BEst of luck in your continuous Journey.

Denise
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