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anitak
on 11/26/08 5:39 am - St. Catharines, Canada
Topic: RE: 12 days out- Regrets

Only you can answer that question for you. Of course you are going to have pain after surgery. You've just put your body through a tremendous ordeal! Follow your surgeon's recommendations and you should be okay. I know that diarrhea/constipation is fairly normal after surgery. Also, don't forget that they probably pumped you up full of air to see around in there and shoulder blade (back) and rib cage pain is a given since they were pushing things around in there.

I assume that you had this surgery to improve your quality of life. If that is the case, then make sure that you stick to your surgeon's diet plan and get a lot of exercise. You probably have a ton of gas, too. The more you walk, that faster that will pass and it will start to decrease in volume, too.  Of course, if there is something that is really bothering you and you can't get in touch with your surgeon, then it is the smart thing to do to go to the ER. It's always better to be safe than sorry. Just remember to ALWAYS tell them that you've had RNY surgery and who your surgeon is.

Good luck, I hope that you are feeling better really soon.

Anita



   My angels are Sharon (MDwife) and Nancy K.!!   I am so blessed!

Height- 5'6",  highest weight-274 (BMI-43.9)
NANN2008
on 11/25/08 2:32 am - GROVE CITY, OH
Topic: hungry, depressed, stumped
Im ten weeks out from RNY. I have not had the luxary of no hunger. Its honestly not head hunger. I was doing pretty good for a couple of weeks then all of a sudden i cant eat anything without it hurting or feeling like i have to go to the bathroom and gag till it comes back up and most of the time it doesnt come back up. I got up this morning and tried to do just a protein drink and even that didnt sit well. I have lost 36 lbs and I realize my bmi started at only 40.1but im just very down and discouraged right now. Im afriad to eat because there is no safe choice for me right now. Please help me. My thanksgiving was sunday and the turkey almost killed me. I figured it was one day so I did eat some stuffing , that went down fine, imagine that? Bread? The depression is really bad and when I get depressed I want to eat. I thought I was on the up swing of this thing then came the food problems and thanksgiving leftovers that i have not touched but they are driving me crazy, esp the stuffing lol.
Vampyrvet
on 11/24/08 1:51 pm
Topic: RE: I hate my band.
Just jumping on the Band-Wagon here (pun intended!).  I had a Realize band placed in June '08.  I chose the Realize over the Lap band because my surgeon told me that the port was low-profile and it created a more secure attachment to the body wall.  I engage in some high-impact physical activities, so band & port slippage were a big concern for me.  Surgery went well as did the post-op liquids period.  After my first fill, I began to have occasional vomiting.  Nothing too bad at first, but it soon escalated.  I thought I was eating improperly, so I took pains to limit my portion size, chew very thoroughly, eat slowly, and stop at the first sign of fullness.  Unfortunately, by the time I felt full, it was already too late.  The vomiting got so bad that I began having trouble holding down liquids.  After an upper GI contrast study, it was obvious that I was obstructed.  Turns out my lower stomach had herniated through the stoma.  I lost 30 pounds in the process.  My doc felt that this was a good time to inform me that 30% of band patients end up needing a 2nd surgery, which both angered and terrified me.  I didn't want to convert to RNY, because that surgery seemed too extreme for what I needed (about 80 pounds to lose), and my family has a history of osteoporosis so I didn't want to mess with my calcium absorption.  So, I had him re-position the band and I'm giving it another try.  As soon as the vomiting stopped, so did the weight loss.  In fact, I have regained 12 of the 30 pounds I lost.  I too paid out of pocket for the first surgery, and am still repaying my mother.  The 2nd surgery was submitted to my insurance company as a hiatal hernia repair, but they denied payment.  I am soon to be in dire financial straits because of this.  I am currently at the same fill level as I was when I started having problems the first time, and my weight is climbing back up.  I can't afford any more problems, but this doesn't seem to be working for me.  To make matters worse, I have an absolutely huge bulge where my "low profile" port is located, and even 6 months after my original surgery, the damn thing STILL hurts.  Every time I bend over, it rubs on the waistband of my pants & feels like someone is poking me in the stomach with a broom handle. It constantly reminds me that it's there, and is definitely interfering with my usual physical activities.   I'm not yet completely regretting having the procedure, but I'm getting there.  Does anyone have any GOOD experiences to inspire me?

Good luck, everyone
Natalie
lovingheart
on 11/24/08 8:45 am - NY
Topic: RE: 12 days out- Regrets
IS this normal to feel like Maybe I would of been better off not getting surgery-?
lovingheart
on 11/24/08 12:28 am - NY
Topic: 12 days out- Regrets
HI I was wonderin gif anyone else feel this way-?
I came out of surgery in a lot of pain and had a hard time in the hospital- I came home
I ended up with dirrhea and pain of it getting stuck in the middle-
ALso The back shoulder blade and rib cage pain I had as soon as i got out of surgery the pain seems to gets worse BUt it takes away my breath and crushing my chest and my circulatin gets cut off- Breathing and coughing makes it worse-
I have been to teh Er twice- with the answers-
My hands and fet were swollen i felt like i was retainng water but on the other hand felt dehydrated-

Very discourging and frustrationg anyone else
Fridleydancer
on 11/23/08 2:31 pm - MN
Topic: RE: Dr. Caruana Sisters Hospital Oct. 8, 2008
Hope you are continuing to do well after your surgery.  I am 65 also and was glad to see someone my age having the surgery.  I thought I was pretty much the "oldster".  I am having my surgery pretty soon, perhaps right after Christmas if all the remaining 2 appts. come quickly.  I am ready, but am a bit worried about how all will go.  I guess that is natural.  Have read responses from some who wish they hadn't had it done, others that had reversals, but most are happy they did it.  Have friends and relatives who have done the rny and are not sorry.  One friend has gained back 50# but is still a lot less than she was and said she is just making bad choices.  Have to stay on top of things once you lose the weight.  My cousin said she plays with 2#'s but no more than that.  Do let us all know how you are doing. 
sperk
on 11/22/08 10:06 am - moorhead, MN
VSG on 02/01/08 with
Topic: RE: VSG Regrets?
Wow you also must be blond replying to a 3 month old post.
(deactivated member)
on 11/22/08 9:47 am
Topic: RE: I hate my band.

Sorry to hear about all the troubles with the band. Just remember you did not fail the band, the band failed you. Check out the revision board. You'll find most folks getting a revision from the Band or RNY not the DS.
(deactivated member)
on 11/22/08 6:47 am - Philly, PA and New Windsor, NY
Topic: RE: VSG Regrets?
Actually someone asked me yesterday why I chose the sleeve, and I can tell you the same thing...
My options were the band, the vsg, and the rny.  I have seen a lot of stuff about the ds on here though too.  Basically the choice was easy for me.  After learning that there were other options the idea of putting the band in my body was a no go.  Plus I had heard all the things that could go wrong with it (slippage, erosion, fills, unfills, etc).  The rny, and the ds as well, seem to have faster weight loss, but the malnutrition issues down the road were very off putting to me.  I didn't want to trade one set of health problems for another.  Also, with the DS, I have seen the amount of food they have to eat to maintain their weight, and it is more than I ate pre-vsg.  I didn't want to get wls just to eat more crap.  So to me the vsg seemed perfect- let my body continue to function as intended, but give me the edge I need to eat a lot less and lose weight. 
I am doing great, I lost 14 pounds in two weeks and I am able to eat and drink without problems.  The protein shakes are pretty nasty, but I only have to put up with them for another two weeks and then I can start getting all my protein from food (when I can start eating chicken again- my fav food). 
fiveholts714
on 11/22/08 1:47 am - St. George, UT
Topic: RE: I hate my band.
I hate my band too.  I never had a sweet spot, just pain everything I would eat.  And them the port and/or tubing got ruined in a fill.  I'm switching to RNY next year.  I also have a lot fo weight to lose.  I don't think that the band was meant for people who need to lose as much weight as we do.  Good luck.
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