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rnmeg1234
on 9/27/09 7:50 pm
Topic: RE: Surgury V/S Fear V/S Dying of my fat body
I understand your concerns and I had the same.  I new of people who had the gastric bypass and had many complications and one who passed away.  The lap band is what I chose because it is the safest.  The surgery itself was 45 minutes start to finish and I went home the same day. Initially I lost about 100 pounds in 8 months but now it is more difficult. I sought of thought it was a quick fix.  It still requires the same comittment as dieting because foods such as ice cream go down easier than beef.  All in all the positive factor is it is an excellant mweight maintanance tool I have not gained back any weight and in all fairness I have not been following the program that well the last few months due to stress etc.  I would do it again in a minute.  I did the surgery so hopefully I would be alive in thrity years to see my children grow  up .  I have thyroid problems and I know how hard it is.  Best of luck to you.     
Poodles
on 9/25/09 1:05 pm - TX
Topic: RE: Anyone regret getting the LAPBAND??
I totally regret the band.  When I was trying to get approved the insurance person told me that it was a good place to start.  But when it didn't work the RNY was the way to go.

I have tried to work with the band since 2006, and have gone up and down the same 40 lbs over and over and over during that time.  Slip, too tight, too loose, you name it.

If you have problems with water retention during the month: BEWARE.  That makes your stomach swell too.  I actually resorted to taking a diuretic for about three days before my period.  Good way to know when Mother Nature is coming... but a pain none the less.  The band is fickle.  One day you can eat an egg for breakfast... the next day you can't even swallow coffee.  It is insane really.  Everyone that knows I have it would never do it because they have seen the hell it has put me through.

Now I am here 3+ years later no results, lots of money spent, lot of frustration, and now approved for the RNY.  Go figure.

That being said... there are alot of ladies on the lapband forum that have done a great job.  Wonderful results.   So it really depends on your body.

Good luck!
mew6495
on 9/24/09 9:04 am - MI
Topic: RE: Loosing too much...?
 I went pretty low after my original WLS in 2001.  It stayed that way for about 3 years then my bounce back started.  Yours may too...

I read somewhere that if you are loosing to much to do the exact opposite of what the "RNY or Pouch rules" calls for.  increase carb intake, eat some inbetween meals, drink with your meals etc.  Just be carful to not stretch out your pouch by overeating to much at one meal.

            
mew6495
on 9/24/09 8:59 am - MI
Topic: RE: Anyone 3+ yrs post op? I want to hear about any complications
 Almost 9 years out from my original RNY proximal.  Had a hernia and bowel obstruction repaired last Oct.  I was low on my vitamin D about 3 years out but some of that was my doing...I did not realize the importance of vitamin intake.  

You have to remember vitamins are MANDATORY daily and for the rest of your life from day one!  No excuses, No options...  Since I have followed my regime, my levels have been ok.

The other thing to realize is protein levels.  I am continuously on the low side.  Again, like the vitamins, it is necessary to increase protein intake daily.  

Other then that, no other issues.  I would definitely do it again!  My life has changed to the better in so many ways because of WLS. 

            
rere10
on 9/24/09 7:30 am
Topic: surgery
I'm scheduled for for my lap band on 10-21  I see the nutritionist Wed. and discuss the diet I will need to be on and for how long.  I see the doctor for my prepo visit on 10-5.  I hope I can keep my cool.

Just wanted to let you guys know.


RERE
                                  My new life started on 10-21-09   
 
     
MistyPena
on 9/24/09 3:15 am - Spokane, wa
Topic: RE: Anyone 3+ yrs post op? I want to hear about any complications
 I am almost 6 years post op. I did have quite a bit of rebound weight gain. I am prone to vitamin deficiencies of b-12 and vitamin D... I did not know I was deficient in vitamin D for years, no one thought to check so I developed osteomalacia... which caused bone, joint pain and chronic fatigue. I supose having chronic fatigue wouldn't help in weightloss. I was admitted to hospital for unexplained abdominal pain about 2 years post op... they thought it was a bowel obstruction but wasn't... it might have been kidney stones from rapid weightloss but they don't know... it just mysteriously went away. I do have hypoglycemia which doesn't really have any rhyme or reason... I just get sick.  My first two years were great, I felt great and I lost weight! When the vitamin deficiencies started showing up I started feeling bad... I lost focus and was depressed. Sometimes I regret the surgery because realistically I do have more health problems now than before. I also blame myself... surgery fixes your tummy but it doesn't fix your head. If emotional problems are what lead you to over eat get help for them along w/ your weightloss surgery. Follow all the rules, follow ALL the rules..no matter how far out you are. I am getting better but it's only w/ a lot of research.... I don't think doctors know all of the side effects of weight loss surgery they are still learning. 
Crystal H.
on 9/23/09 4:15 am
Topic: RE: Surgury V/S Fear V/S Dying of my fat body
I think that you need to weigh your options. You want to be a mom, be healthier, get rid of your acid reflux, IBS and type 2 Diabetes. These are great goals!

As a mother of a 2 year old, and about to have surgery.. I have asked myself, is this worth dying for? The posibility of dying is always there.

The answer I gave myself was. I can maybe die during surgery, or I can die from being obese. Dying from being obese is going to happen for sure. Dying from surgery probably won't.

This turned into a debate, what are the things that I would gain from WLS and what would I give up or possibily have to live with for the rest of my life.

My gain list started like this: i'd have a better life with my family, i will be able to fly on an airplane, ill be able to shop at normal clothing stores, ill be able to be more active.. I wont be embarrassed.

My give up list went like this... I'll have to monitor what I eat, I can't have soda anymore.

What would you gain and what would you lose with surgery? Make that list for yourself and then decide if this is the right choice for you.
ginafitsemons
on 9/22/09 6:16 am - NM
Topic: RE: Anyone 3+ yrs post op? I want to hear about any complications
i am also out 5 years.  since than i have become hypoglycemic also with no rhyme or reason.  my  A & D vitamin has tanked.  right now at this very moment i am in bed doing a bowel prep for tomorrow.  i think i have developed an ulcer so i am getting scoped both ways.  i had bounce back weight of 50 pounds, but now i have these problems.  maybe wouldnt mind so much if i were thinner. LOL
what really bothers me is the hypoglycemia, its a crappy crappy feeling.  the iowest i can remember my sugar is 38.
Gina
marolkisan
on 9/20/09 8:03 am - Atlanta GA
Topic: RE: Regretting the DS
I'm glad you are healthy and happy.  It is important for people to know all the research so they can make informed decisions.  There is research that shows an increase in suicide rates for some people who've had WLS.  I suspect that these may be persons like myself for whom overeating has been a stress-release/coping mechanism -- once the ability to overeat is gone and the person doesn't necessarily have other coping mechanisms in place and still suffersfrom stress, depression etc... they may find the pressure unbearable.  For example, because I suffer from depression (and it is suffering), I am having a vertical sleeve so that I may continue to take the medications that help me remain sane and happy.  If I didn't know of the possibility of increased suicide rates, I might've made a choice that wouldn't be as great for me and my personal situation.  Also, I have received group therapy support which I will continue post-surgery.  Once again, I'm sincerely glad that many people having WLS don't share this concern. I just wouldn't want people who don't share your sunny outlook to feel they have to hide in a closet of a different kind of oppression and not get the information, help and support they need.
HW/256  SW/233  CW/151  GW/140 or less
G/BMI=25 or less, normal weight

1st goal = 215#, MET   2nd goal = Onederland, MET  
3rd goal = 175#, MET   4th goal = > BMI of 29.9, MET  
5th goal = 155#, MET Final WL goal = 140# or less and  normal BMI
marolkisan
on 9/20/09 7:46 am - Atlanta GA
Topic: RE: Why didn't I do it sooner...
You can't bundle all WLS together -- the above may apply to malabsorptive effects, but the band and vertical sleeve gastrectomy do not cause malabsorption.  The VSG in particular does not block food either so you don't have slimes, productive burping, dumping etc... either.
HW/256  SW/233  CW/151  GW/140 or less
G/BMI=25 or less, normal weight

1st goal = 215#, MET   2nd goal = Onederland, MET  
3rd goal = 175#, MET   4th goal = > BMI of 29.9, MET  
5th goal = 155#, MET Final WL goal = 140# or less and  normal BMI
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