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Not trying to start any surgery war as I know everyone's choice is very individual, but have you looked into the DS? You get the sleeve component as well as the malabsorption which helps to maintain your weight loss several years out. Just saying to look at all available options before you decide.
Edited: Holy **** I did not realize this thread was so old... lol Leaving my response, though, for anyone else who may peruse.
http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/crossingtotransferaddictions/
Hi All,
There is a new OH Online Support Group. The above link will get you there.
It's called Crossing Over to Transfer Addictions.
This group discusses the issue of transfer addictions (also known as cross addictions) after weight loss surgery. there are millions of people who have undergone gastric bypass who are now dealing with issues of addiction transfer.
For a number of people, giving up overeating leads to adoption of a new compulsion. Addiction transfer occurs when someone is unable or unwilling to rely on one compulsion (for us, it was food) and so switches to a new compulsion (alcohol, drugs, sex, gambling, shopping, internet, porn, etc) due to not having dealt with the underlying issue behind the compulsion.
***Please feel free (and safe) to join and discuss any and/all issues you have regarding Transfer Addiction. ***
WE WILL SUPPORT EACH OTHER WITHOUT JUDGEMENT!
I go out with my friends, and I don't just sit there waiting to go home because I can't have the type of fun they're having. I pretty much do have the type of fun my friends have. I mean, I can't eat as much as they can now, but that doesn't mean I have less fun. I enjoy the food I do eat, and I enjoy the conversation, and I have fun. I can't drink a lot, but I never was a big drinker anyway, and neither are my friends. I can have one drink if I want to, which is plenty. Mostly I skip it. But if you want to drink a lot and stuff, you might want to put off having surgery.
Kelly
Last week we released two major updates. First was the public release of OH Groups where any ObesityHelp member can now create their own Group. Second was the addition of Activity Tracking to Health Tracker, which provides a robust and easy to use tool to track and monitor your exercise and activity. Today we have added My Meals and an Activity vs. Weight Loss Report to Health Tracker.
My MealsMy Meals allows you to group and store multiple food and beverage items as a custom meal that can be used over and over again. If you have meals that you eat on a regular basis, you will no longer need to log each food item individually. |
To access My Meals, go to your Health Tracker in My OH and click on the Nutrition tab. You will see My Meals listed under Nutrition. |
Creating a new meal works similar to your Food Log. You can search for food items on the right and add the foods to the meal on the left. A Calorie Breakdown chart and Nutrient Summary Label are also available for each meal. |
Once a meal is created you can add that meal to your Food Log from My Meals by clicking "i had this" or you can search for the meal from your Food Log. |
When searching for a meal to add to your Food Log, all meals will be returned when "My Foods" is selected in search. So, to "drill down" on meals that you have created, select to only show "My Foods." When a new meal is created it may require up to 30 minutes for that meal to be indexed and become searchable. |
Activity vs. Weight Loss ReportAdding to the Macronutrient and Export Reports previously available, there is now an Activity vs. Weight Loss Report. This report will allow to compare Average Time in Activity vs Weight over time, providing you with further insight into what impact physical activity as on weight loss and weight loss maintenance. In Health Tracker, click Reports and then select Activity vs. Weight Loss. |
We hope these additions to Health Track reduce the time required to log your daily food intake and makes it easier to view how physical activity impacts your weight. Create your first meal now! If you have any questions, comments or concerns about this release, please post them on the Main Message Board. |
as far as "missing" foods is concerned.... well, sometimes i DO think to myself "gosh i really loved such and such food" when it's in front of me. and once in a while i will take a bite of someone's dessert or chicken parm or something. but i won't buy it or cook it or keep it anywhere near where i could have access to it. there are a lot of healthy alternatives and when you REALLY want to change the way you live and how your body looks and feels and works you will savor those alternatives and be grateful for them.
but if you really feel like you have a need to "sow your wild oats" (with food and drink), maybe it is NOT the time to have surgery. i think i was in such a state about 3 or 4 years ago where i was not ready. last year i decided, "i am so fed up with being fat-- NO MORE!!! I AM DONE!!!" hopefully i'll be able to continue a healthy lifestyle.
best of luck in your journey.
About 9 months ago I developed ulcers and although they have resolved with medication, the nausea and vomiting with anything more than liquids continues. I have had rounds with TPN (total protein nutrition through a central line in my chest), and now my surgeon is strongly suggesting reversal as my overall health is reliant on the protein through a tube. Reveral is only done if your health is at risk - basicallly is there a chance you could die if you don't have it reversed. The reversal is much more traumatic to your body with additional surgical risks, and even after reversal, your digestive system may not go back to normal. It is only looked at in extreme cases.
So after all this, those of you who are only a few weeks out, please give it a chance. Call your doc is you have problems, they are used to the questions and feel free to ask other patients on this site, they are a wonderful resource. Take care, you are in my prayers.
on 10/14/09 11:58 am - .., WA