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DEBI
on 6/3/05 7:04 am - Indianapolis, IN
Topic: RE: Always HUNGRY!!!!!!
Good idea about the protein bars....they have some called Super Crunch on www.bariatriceating.com and they are soooooooooo good. I am going to order me some this month...not really that expensive either. How far out are you? I know I have always been HEAD hungry....but once I get something out to eat...I am not hungry. I know that I DON'T dump on sugar....so I have to watch my snacks...but I just focus on getting in my protein...not much room for anything else. As long as your weight is going down....I wouldn't worry too much....by the end of your first year you will be able to eat a cup at a time and that will be heaven...at least it will be for me...I am still at about 1/2 to 3/4 cup each meal...and I am 10 months...so I think I need to work on increasing the meal sizes...ugh. So much food to eat...so little time
roser13
on 6/3/05 6:57 am - Glendale, CA
Topic: RE: Always HUNGRY!!!!!!
Deborah,I think I made some big mistakes in my journey. I ate solids to soon on my first 2-3 weeks and I think that has something to do with me being hungry. I mean,maybe I stretched out my pouch! Or the other is maybe it is a head thing or i'm just bored. I'm going shopping today to try to get some healthy snacks. And I do have at least 96grams of protein a day. I want to try the protein bars,I think Trader Joes has the Zone Bar thats pretty good. Thanks for the wishes. Hugs & Rosie
DEBI
on 6/3/05 12:46 am - Indianapolis, IN
Topic: RE: I Regret Having RNY
Jackie....the mourning of food will pass. It is like giving up cigarettes or alcohol...it's an addiction to eat too much food and find comfort in it...it is your life and you need tom decide how you live it...or not live. All I can tell you is that there is nothing out there that taste as good as being thinner and healthier. At 10 months out I eat whatever i want...just not much...and I am happy. I eat sugarfree/low fat ice cream on occassion...I eat lots of veggies and fruits....I eat 3 times a day and I feel like I have pigged out....on less than 1 1/2 cups of food a day...I no longer plan my day around when my meals are...if I forget a meal...I just have a protein drink at night...I try not to eat anything after 8PM....I was a night eater..I would eat 5-7 meals a day before surgery...I am so glad to not have that problem anymore. Down 111 and loving every minute....just 40 more to go. You have invested a lot into your future....give it time to work...no addiction is resolved overnight....see how you feel 6 months out and 100+ pounds lighter.... Good luck on whatever road you choose.
DEBI
on 6/3/05 12:34 am - Indianapolis, IN
Topic: RE: ANOREXIA...
Hi Justa, I was afraid of becoming food intolerant in the first 4-6 months....I wasn't eating anything....anorexic. And I became protein malnurished....my hands and feet got HUGE with the swelling and water retention. Anyhow...I had to force myself to eat 3 times a day (but it was only a tablespoon at a time)....so I know how you can get the way you are. It is so easy to become uninterested in food....it was such a chore to eat. I am better now and I am 10 months out. I still have trouble with meat (ugh) but I seem to love to eat veggies. Good luck to you and I hope you are able to overcome your problem. I fear gaining the weight back....so I can see myself going in the same direction as you...I am glad to hear from someone who is there and realizes they have the problem and is taking steps to fix it.
DEBI
on 6/3/05 12:27 am - Indianapolis, IN
Topic: RE: Always HUNGRY!!!!!!
Sorry your feeling this way. Have you discussed this with your doctor? I am 10 months out and I have just gotten my appetite back recently...up to now I have had to force myself to eat my 3 meals a day...Now I seem hungry all the time...but I am still able to eat very little. Also....do you have post-op instructions? I had to eat soft foods (no meat) for the 1st 30 days after surgery to allow the staple line to heal. You might try increasing your protein supplements....your body is literally starving afterall and it knows it needs protein...so maybe that is why you are feeling hungry. Best wishes on your journey!!
MerryKaye
on 6/3/05 12:04 am - Williamsville, NY
Topic: RE: I am scared to death - looking for guidance....
JP, Thank you for sharing with me. I really appreciate the feedback. What you said makes a tremendous amount of sense. This is such a huge decision - I thought I was ready, but realized I am not. Taking the time to REALLY be at peace with a decision like this is the best thing that one can do. It is a life altering surgery - I have read in many cases, people are extremely pleased and have a huge difference in their quality of life. I have read of some instances where people have had great difficulty and have regretted the surgery. I have decided that I will make a HUGE effort to lose the weight on my own. I cannot honestly say that I have REALLY fought to lose this weight on my own. It would be more accurate to say I have made some half-hearted attempts. I have been a Weigh****chers member on and off for many years, and I know it is a good plan. If I am unsuccessful and I can say I gave it 100% effort, then I will be more at ease with surgery. Thank you again for your kind, supportive words. I wish you the best of luck in your weight loss endeavors. Karen
kevindavy
on 6/2/05 11:45 am - Homewood, IL
Topic: RE: pre op view of board
Nia, I suggest that you read the DS board. One of the things that convinced me to have the duodenal switch is the fact that on several occassions, this board was asked if anyone regretted having the DS. I have yet to see an affirmative answer. I see many. many RNY regrets. Now the RNY is a good procedure for many people, but not for me.
Jennifer_PA
on 6/2/05 11:06 am - PA
Topic: RE: I am scared to death - looking for guidance....
Karen, I was in your shoes just one year ago. I even went as far as "making myself" schedule and thought I could somehow work my way through the fear. I had pre admission testing, got coverage at work, had help lined up at home....even borrowed a recliner at the suggestion of a friend.....I had a full blown ugly panic attack at work and it was the worst thing I had ever experienced. I was present but not there.....somehow not able to function. It was then that I realized I was simply not ready. It took so much for me to get that message but I finally did, though embarassed and humiliated as everyone knew I was on my way to surgery in just a couple of days. I applaud you for realizing you are not ready before getting scheduled! I am now again pursuing this journey after another year of questions/answers, research and consulting with other surgeons. I am taking it slow. There is no urgency here. I've been this way for a very long time and I can take my time with this most important decision. Best wishes to you! J P
PATT
on 6/2/05 8:36 am - Durand, MI
Topic: RE: I am scared to death - looking for guidance....
Hi Karen, You definitely need to feel this is your own decision done for the right reasons, at the right time. I have been digesting this surgery for over 5 yrs. Only difference between you & me I am definitely ready. I too was concerned about healing due to keloid scarring. My surgeon assured me that in and of itself, is actually a good thing as it helps healing. So that helped me a tad. Be at peace with your decision. You did the right thing for YOU!
sngglnclos
on 6/2/05 6:40 am - sw burbs, MN
Topic: RE: I regret not having WLS sooner...
Hi Dixie I am pre surgery so I can't offer alot of advise, but what I can do is tell you about a website that I was reading today....I hope it helps!! http://store.bariatriceating.com/asksusanfaq.html
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