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Topic: I REGRET IT BIG TIME!
I prayed extensively before getting this done and felt that since God "approved" it I would be fine. WEll I had the surgery 4 mos ago and have only lost 16 lousy lbs and am sick a lot! I hate this! Oh, well. I rarely post but felt like venting. No one will probably respond but I've said it.
Topic: RE: ANOREXIA...
Hello Justa Mann:
Yes it is a fact after WLS a percentage of WLS patients do become anorexic..or have anorexic tendancies It is because they are so fearful of gaining the weight back that they keep themselves from eating. I also am one of these people.
I am two years out and my hunger signal has not come back yet. My nutrionist who is absolutely terrific has helped me alot to see what I am subconsciously doing to myself. It is hard very hard. I can not eat hardly any veggies at all because they hurt I can eat some meat but not much.
It is so funny to go from being obese to having another eating problem only on the other end of the scale....My Dr and nutr. are also telling me to eat more that I am not eating enough. I have had low blood sugar episodes which are definately NOT FUN...once I was low enough to go into a coma I was like 38-40 on my blood sugar.
I did this to get healthy and when I don't eat I am making my body sick again only in a different way. I wanted a lifestyle change for the good.
I have that. SInce my last meeting with my nutr. I have started my food diary again keeping track of the protein intake. I was only getting like 23 grams a day now I have realy worked to get it up to 40. It's not easy when your not hungry......Food is no longer a priority in my life but my health is I worked very hard to get where I am at now....and I am sure you have too.
Keep seeing your therapist and work through your issues. If you would like to e-mail me and talk that would be great too SUpport is always a great thing...Take care and good luck to you.
Ramona 346/162
Topic: RE: Not sure if I regret it or not....you tell me....
Hello:
I know the statistics really scare you! I was told 3 out of 5 gain the weight back in 5 years. The ones that I know that are more than 3 years out have started to gain their weight back but after talking to them you can understand why. (ALL) of them have told me they are eating wrong and NOT exercising! The average of the last three people I have talked to have gained back at least 30 pds. They all know what they need to do to maintain and they don't do it.
I also am so afraid of gaining the weight back but I try to be diligent on what I am consuming. I still have problems getting all my protein in..my nutrionists has helped me alot realize that I am so afraid of gaining again that I am keeping myself from eating food for a healthy body which is why we all did this was to be healthy again and regain our life back...I am holding strong I am not ever going back to being obese evver. So I will do whatever it takes to stay where I am at.
Good luck to you I know we all went through this for different reasons
and I plan on NOT being one of the regaining statistics....
Ramona 346/162/184lbs lost
(deactivated member)
on 8/17/05 6:49 pm
on 8/17/05 6:49 pm
Topic: RE: almost 2 yr aniv. and lost a whopping 23 lbs
I agree with the last poster.
What has happened since?
Jules
on 8/11/05 5:53 am - Dauphin, PA
on 8/11/05 5:53 am - Dauphin, PA
Topic: RE: Help with an assignment...
1. What type(s) of support were you offered before and after surgery?
I had done a lot of research and had the support of my hubby, who ended up having the surgery, and then my sister who went after me. My kids were scared, as were some of my friends, but they supported my decision.
2. Did you take advantage of these services offered?
I took advantage of every support service that I could. I went to meetings. I spoke with people. Best of all, I was referred to this site. God bless everyone here!
3. Do you feel as though you received apporiate support from your doctor after your surgery?
Absolutely! Both from my PCP and the surgeon.
4. If you could change anything about your doctor's support system, what would it be?
Nothing that I can think of at this moment.
5. Were you 100% honest when you took your psy eval?
Yes, and that was a bad thing. I grew up with a mentall ill mother and my psych used me as a case study. I had to see him 4 times total. After the 3rd time, I complained to my surgeon's office and to the nutritionist. My files were reviewed and I was released...and he's since been removed from doing any type of evaluations!
6. Do you think you should have been required to have follow up visits with the psychologist after your surgery?
Not really. I know where to go for help if I need it...and Lord knows I know when I need help.
7. Do you feel as though the surgery created or solved any emotional issues for you?
Neither created or solved.
Topic: RE: Info on ds surgery?
Hi Kathleen-
Just wanted to come say hi I am 4 weeks out from my ds today! I played tennis again this morning. Things are going well. The other links you were given are good. I started my search at http://www.duodenalswitch.com
Good Luck in your search for information,
Kim
280/255/150
sw/cw/goal
Topic: RE: POLL
I am 18 months out, and my answer really is that I am glad I had the surgery, although I wish I had gotten a bit more information before hand. Some of the "discoveries" of post-op life have been unpleasant.
The biggest thing I thought I would be rid of forever (aside from the weight) was my obsession with food. But, I spend more time on food now than I ever did before. What to eat, how much, if it is balanced, if I will get sick, etc...I still consider myself a prisoner of food!
But, on the plus side, I was able to figure out why I ate so much, and get to the root of my obesity. Once I fixed me, I turned to other outlets for emotions, bordom, etc...
Also, I was on a crash course with death. At 330 pounds, I was out of control. Sudden caridac death runs all through my family, and my heart would occasionally through some mean palpitations at me. My blood pressure was starting to climb, my legs stayed swollen constantly, and I was tearing my varicose veins with all the weight, and bleeding profusely each time I did so. I was also at the point of not wanting to climb stairs; I would take everything I needed to either my office upstairs, or to the family room downstairs. That's when I knew it was bad..really bad.
I needed the restriction of not being able to eat huge portions. And the surgery gave me a tool to use that was invaluble. I have lost over 200 pounds, and went from a size 30-32 to a size 2-4. What a difference.
I can now enjoy my family, and my husband and I have improved our relationship tenfold. Although he still says that my weight never bothered him, it was limiting. I remember him researching airline seat sizes when we went to Germany, because he was afraid I would not fit into an average size coach seat. He is in the military, and being fit is a requirement for him. Having been the fattest spouse at functions for years, I am now glad to be among the smallest. I was always self conscious about that.
So, if I had it to do over again, I would, in a heartbeat. Nothing tastes as good as being healthy. And being a normal weight, shopping in regular stores, and getting compliments does wonders for a woman whose self image was so low for so long......
Andrea
Topic: RE: Question For Women
Damn the luck! My sister is 4 years older than me and she says it hasnt happened for 2 years for her. Hurray! Light at the end of the tunnel!
Topic: RE: POLL
I can't give you a cut and dr answer to your question. The 1st year for me was rougher than I thought I could handle. I still have some not so good days. At 2.5 years out, I love myself much more than I ever have, my life is good...After everything is done and said, I am happy all this is behind me. Don't know if I would do it again.