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Topic: where is memorial page?
i cannot seem to find the memorial page since the new update on the sight?
thanks
sandy
Topic: RE: Biggest Mistake of My Life
I totally know what you are talking about. I found out a couple of weeks ago that I was pregnant when they performed by surgery...If only they had given me a blood test instead of a urine test at the hospital I wouldn't have to be struggling with morning sickness and the effects of this damn surgery. I can hardly eat and I have been told by my OB and my surgeon not to lose anymore weight. Uhh..wasn't that the point of the surgery. I wake up every morning regretting this decision to have this surgery. But I am really happy about being pregnant. Hang in there--it has to get better...doesn't it??
Topic: RE: POLL
I'll be 2 years out from lap-band next month, have had zero complications, so far have lost over 130 lbs and have been really pleased with my surgery. The slower weight loss is less hard on the body and easier for the brain to keep up with so less occurrence of body dysmorphia (still seeing yourself as fat when you're really not anymore).
It's nice to feel really normal about eating...the band had given me clear, normal hunger/satiety signals and the result has been natural weight loss. I don't have to worry about loss of lean tissue, significant hair loss, premature osteoporosis, strictures, dumping, bathroom issues from eating fats or simple carbs, foul stools/gas, fistulas, unreachable ulcers, chronic anemia, pernicious anemia, etc.
Nancy
394/260/180
Topic: RE: I REGRET IT BIG TIME!
I'm sorry you're having such a rough time...your frustration is very understandable.
Have you tried Unjury protein drinks? I found that they were by far (IMO) the most palatable...no grit or texture, and a nice flavor...not too sweet, just right...unjury.com is where they can be ordered and you can order samples first so you don't have to commit to cannisters of something you might not like. My fave was the chocolate but the vanilla is good too. Maybe worth trying because those shakes need to not be gross...and I'm really picky about shakes...don't like the overly thick/gritty/chalky/nasty ones and can't/won't force myself to drink something like that.
I hope your issues get resolved soon for you...I know strictures are not pleasant to deal with.
Nancy
Topic: RE: Any DS regrets?
You will find some regrets from DS on the OSSG-gone_wrong group on yahoogroups.com.
Nancy
394/260/180
Topic: RE: Biggest Mistake of My Life
Probably the best group out there for info on complications and reversals is the OSSG-gone_wrong group on yahoogroups. Wonderful group of people who've been through an awful lot and should have answers to all your questions.
Nancy
Topic: RE: Sad and very regretful!!!
Hi Janie
That is the whole idea behind wls.It is too help us stop eating,I ate enough for 10 people my whole life and it is the best thing I ever did,Food doesn't matter to me any more...........steve
Topic: RE: WLS Candidates - PLEASE check out the DS procedure
Hello... What about the Vertical sleeve Gastrectomy".... so far it's the best wls according to me..
It is relatively new but it is getting more & more poular everyday..
No Dumping, NO MALABSORPTION, Normal digestion, purely restrictive proceadure only!! so none of that dumping baloney and future problems of being mal-nourished!!!
I am 2 months & 8 days post op and have lost a total of 62lbs with only 43lbs to reach my suregons goal weight of 165lbs and another 58lbs to reach my own personal goal of 150lbs...
So if anyone is interested, come on over to the VG forum.. our family is growing everyday!!
Topic: RE: Biggest Mistake of My Life
Hello,
I had my surgery about 13 months ago and I am living proof that one can get through having strictures. I had 2 strictures - one about 4 months after surgery and one about 9 months after surgery. Each time I had an out-patient procedure to correct them. I don't believe I will have any more as my digestion finally feels 'normal' after a year of having a very touchy stomach. I was warned about strictures and one of my friends who had the surgery about a year ahead of me actually had a stricture and had it 'stretched' and was fine. I wasn't too alarmed when it was discovered that I had a stricture - it was also discovered that I had an ulcer at the same time and I took Nexium for a few months which was a big help. I feel really well now, and have lost 100 lbs. which was my goal. I questioned myself maybe once or twice after the surgery because I couldn't see where I would ever be able to eat normal things again, but I have now reached that stage and eating food is no longer such a big deal or such an all-consuming thought. I used to struggle constantly about what I should eat - how much I should eat - when I should eat - blah, blah, blah. It was exhausting. I also followed my doctor's directions to the letter and that was very restrictive. I am very glad now that I did. I exercised during the weight loss process and have learned to really like exercising - I see myself building muscle and looking really good - that is such a wonderful feeling. I hope you will hang in there and realize that better days are ahead for you. It has taken me this entire year to 'get it' - and some days I still struggle with the mind game of weight loss - I don't think it will ever be easy, but the new me - the size 6 me, is so happy and I feel so healthy, I wish this for you - and will keep you in my prayers. In the end it is your decision - and you have to decide what is right for you. I know having the surgery was right for me. I had diabetes (no longer on any meds), heart disease (down to 2 pills a day from 11), and hypertension (1 pill a day, down from 4). I feel like a new woman and I continue to be amazed to realize that for over 20 years I was over weight and could have really felt better, if only I had taken that huge step and lost the weight way back when. I am disgusted with myself that I had to get to the point of surgery, but am so thankful that I had the courage to have it. I feel that it has saved my life. Be strong - be in prayer - the answer will come to you.
Sue N.