I'm a little over a year out and did the same research prior to my surgery. I didn't find any regretters back then and I haven't had one regret with mine either. I couldn't be happier.

OMG so sorry your having such a hard time of it. Where you following all the rules of after surgery care, maybe if you follow what doctor tells you religiously you will be feeling better in no time. Also have you called your surgeon to let him know? Hope things look brighter for you real soon HUGS

Wishing you both all the best hang in there things will get better you are still healing give it time this too will pass Hugs

It is a scary propostion, no doubt. It is a very vulnerable feeling being on the operating table. I think if your surgeon has a lot of experience, you need not be as worried. I wish I had chosen a more experienced surgeon, personally. I wish you the best with whatever you choose! To the children of Mary Wright, you have my sympathies on the loss of your mother. I am very sorry. Nicci

Kitkat24, what an intelligent post. You said this very well!  I didn't have gastric bypass. I had the lapbanding done with horrible complications being the end result. I received a message from some random nasty woman today telling me that I MUST be lying or a hypochondriac since SHE didn't have any problems at all.  No one knows what anyone else goes through while striving for a healthier life.  It takes a very small minded person to have no compassion for those who had poor results, in my opinion.