Lady A-A response

Well said Irish if you noticed, Phia put me out there to respond, yet she has never responded to me, could it be that now she has had the surgery and understands better? Hmmmm, Nobody knows. Adrienne

Phia...where are you? Come out come out wherever you are. Lady A, you are one in a million. I just wish I would have found someone prior to surgery that would have told me the real truth about what happens post-op. It all looked like a piece of cake until after I had the surgery. Now I deal with many things due to this surgery. Yes, I think I still regret having it, but for me, it was either have WLS or die, so I chose the lesser of 2 evils. God bless you and thanks for all the help you have given others..debbie

i just want to say , i felt this way preop also, easier said than done, lady a is being realistic, and she just have to guts to he speak out .And we donot . If it was so easy to follow rules , we would not need this surgery in the first place.wls donot make us eat right like magic.i am happy for you that you are having wls, but talk to us when it is your turn . i wish someone was as up front with me as lady a before wls.i here pre ops all the time saying that once they have wls they will eat great ,excersise and be perfect ,if it was that easy ,we would have done it before hand, this surgery change the size of our stomach,it does not adjust your mind.Good luck to you , and have a great journey

I am going to confess, i donot excersise , it is good to get that out , i am suspose to , but i work 12 hour days , and have a family to take care of , i am too tired ,once i work a full time job, cook, clean, wash clothes , spend time with my child , do home work and give finance; q.c time.

Phia? It's been awhile since surgery, and I am sure everyone is as curious as I am to see how you are finding life as a post-op. It certainly does look different from this side, as I am sure you now know. j

I FOR ONE AM VERY CURIOUS, SHE CALLED ME OUT AND NEVER RESPONDED. IF SHE HAS HAD NO PROBLEMS, I AM TRULY HAPPY FOR HER, BUT SOME HOW, I THINK THAT IS NOT SO AND SHE IS EATING AND REGRETING MANY OF THE NASTY THINGS SHE SAID TO ME. EITHER WAY, I WISH YOU THE BEST, AND GUESS WHAT? IF YOU NEEDED TO TALK OR HAD QUESTIONS, YOU COULD STILL PRIVATELY EMAIL ME AND I WOULD TREAT YOU GRACIOUSLY, BECAUSE THAT IS JUST THE TYPE OF PERSON I AM. PLUS YOU WOULD NOT BE THE FIRST............ ADRIENNE