I fully support your position. I am a member of the future patient's family (at least I hope so), and I understand that inaction can lead to more disastrous consequences. It's normal to be afraid of change, but it's not normal to understand that you are on edge and do nothing.
The nurse's words cheered me up.

First, forgive yourself. Keep blaming yourself is only going to make the problem worse.

Second, knowing there's a problem is the first step towards correcting the underlying issues.

Third, set a course of action, whether seeing a counselor or psychologist that deals with weight issues.

And

Fourth, find a weight loss program that program that teaches proper nutrition, support, and teaches how to handle head hunger as opposed to physical hunger.

When you do see your pcp, you can tell them how you are addressing the issues at hand. Believe me, there are so many in the same boat as you.

Hello! Here is a link to the Bariatric Surgeons in Mexico and you can see which ones do Revision and RNY/DS.

https://www.obesityhelp.com/find/bariatric-surgeon/MEXICO/

Hey MOAKEN, sorry to hear about your struggles.

Wishing you the best and hope you are ok.

Fingers crossed the docs can get to the bottom of it for you.

Thanks for your reply and I'm glad your situation with stones isn't serious anymore, however, my post is 'really' about the malabsorption of protein and it causing sub-dermal edema and now needing a revision surgery because my by-pass section is not absorbing properly.