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When I was researching this stuff, I started by talking to people who've already gone through it, and they recommended talking to Dr. Treen from the Surgical Clinic Of Louisiana. He answered all my questions and was also the doc who managed my surgery.
Another advice is to check if your insurance covers this kind of surgery. I am covered at Covering Central Florida, and they covered my bariatric surgery with no questions. It was a big relief for my pocket.
You could consider their insurance plan to avoid all the costs. To find more information, you can read about when is open enrollment 2024, and there you will find all the details to get their plan.
"will not help you unless you get to the core of of why you emotional eat"
THIS ??????
None of us got to the point we needed wls because we're happy. Until THAT is addressed and the work, the REALLY hard work is done, nothing will keep the weight from coming back on, or transferring that behavior to something else.
I hope you feel better soon and have a productive first WLS appointment.
I agree with Kathleen's advice. I was hesitant at first if I should tel anyone at all. However, many years have passed after my surgery and I think telling your children that you are on a new journey to getting healthy and that they will see some changes in your body and how you eat is a good idea. You could even show them some before and after pictures here on ObesityHelp and talk to them about how the surgery works. Also, many surgeons/centers welcome family members to attend a support group or consult session so that family can understand the process, the surgery etc.
Agree with you. I believe it's important to let your kids know that you're embarking on a new health adventure and that they may expect to notice some changes in your appearance and eating habits as a result. If they are interested in learning more about the operation, you can even show them some before and after photographs from ObesityHelp and explain the process to them.
Dr Alexander Abkin is a specialized surgeon in New Jersey, you should visit him personally and seek guidance regarding your issues.
on 9/13/23 12:36 am
Hey there, I've read your incredible stories.
I just wanted to chime in and offer my support to GRANDMAr and Kathleen W. for their strength in facing weight regain after surgery, especially during such challenging times with the loss of loved ones. Your resilience is truly inspiring.
Stay strong, and remember that setbacks are a part of the journey. You've both shown incredible determination, and I believe you'll achieve your goals once again.
Sending positive vibes your way!
I don't know if my response which was the last one on this thread didn't sit well with you, I hope you know I meant well and wish you the very best.
I've been in the bariatric surgery communities a long time, I know thousands of people at this point who've had surgery.
What I said to you, I'd say to anyone and that is get extensive therapy prior to , during and post operatively as well as the support of one's bariatric peers.
I get that you may feel you are finally ready after everything you've been through to finally have surgery.
Just saying it couldn't hurt even if you've already addressed trauma and foundation for overating to continue to do so, so you are the best possible place medically and mentally that you can be both prior to surgery and after it.
Sometimes when grads on here show concern, it's not like we think we are better than any other post op.
But what we are usually more experienced, especially for those of us who've remained active in the bariatric communities not just in our own experiences but others.
In 2001 we had OH here and yahoo groups and our surgeons usually had an offline group, there's way more support for the taking when you need it then what w had and then there will be a time, that you'll also pay it forward and give support to.
That's the beauty of the bariatric surgery communities we do look out for one another even if we may not see eye to eye on every topic.
So hopefully you understand my original response and why I'm reiterating the importance of support both professional and peers and again, it's not specific to you, it's helpful to anyone who's having or had bariatric surgery.
Wishing you all the hest. Peace, Lisa
I'm certain the numerous benefits of wls, including lowering many risks of diseases caused by obesity, are well worth having the surgery. I'm also convinced we are all at greater risk of various diseases and complications that arise from the imbalance wls creates in all of our bodies. It's still well worth it in my opinion but physical imbalances come with a price, and that may include higher incidents of certain types of cancer and medical issues. I asked my surgeon about this a few years ago and he agreed it's a possibility although there has never been a study on the exact topic.
Incredible change you make a record for others that nothing is impossible. Losing weight is not an easy task, it requires a lot of effort, and consistency. While really appreciating your efforts. Hats Off to you!
I didn't even bother reading it. While I can appreciate the gentleman's efforts at losing 450 lbs, I bet it was no harder than me losing, and maintaining my loss of 180 lbs, for over 21 years....
I dare say none of us have breezed thru our journey....if you have...I might hate you...just a little
RNY 4-22-02...
LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155
We Can Do Hard Things
