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on 7/5/21 4:33 am
My sister in law has been operated on recently. She says it's worth it.
I kept the outfits I wore to both my WLS and it's revision. Having a reminder of where you've been is a good thing, having an excuse to go back there isn't IMO.
Keep something that is meaningful to you and then let the rest go so it can help someone else. This can be a fun part of the process!
Your health insurance card will have a phone number and a website where you can look for information on which surgeons are part of that plan. You can also send an email to ObesityHelp member services. Here is the Contact member services email page.
Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
on 7/2/21 1:30 pm
I literally never drank before WLS .
Afterwards, during the ( intense extra food withdrawal ) and " liquid diet " stage I tried having a few sips of red wine which like overnight turned into a daily dependence and even addiction.
Transfer addiction is very real and also dangerous. Both to our health and our relationships....
I'm much healthier, lighter and better looking when I don't drink .
I was a year or more out - which for me was well past goal. I now have wine on occasion and my "glass of wine" is about 2 fingers in the bottom. I am normally shocked when I order a glass out of the house and realize what a full glass of wine looks like. There's an increased risk of transfer addiction, so no matter when you start you have to be careful.
VSG: 1/17/17
5'7" HW: 283 SW: 229 CW: 135-140 GW: 145
Pre-op: 53 M1: 22 M2: 12 M3: 12 M4: 8 M5: 10 M6: 11 M7: 5 M8: 6 M9-M13: 15-ish
LBL/BL w/ Fat Transfer 1/29/18
I live in the Dallas!Ft. Worth area and I am having trouble finding a surgeon that accepts my insurance!
Can anyone help!!!
My friend's daughter had weight loss surgery and became a full blown alcoholic afterward. She has lost her husband and children, been in jail, and been in various rehabs. Nothing helps. She did not drink before surgery. There is a substantial risk of this happening if you drink alcohol after weight loss surgery.
It is dangerous and can lead to premature death. Your tiny stomach reduces your ability to control the effects of alcohol. Here is some information to read and consider.
Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
I've had opportunities to drink such as my Uncles funeral, but I decided to quit alcohol altogether. This month will be a real challenge as I will be vacationing to a hotel casino and alcohol will be everywhere. I'm pretty confident in my ability to turn down drinks, plus I'm not near my goal weight.
I was about three years out the first time I had a drink (it was wine - maybe two glasses?). I have maybe four glasses of wine a year now. But alcoholism runs in my family, I know I have an addictive personality, and I'm very aware of the risk of transfer addiction within the bariatric community, so I'm pretty careful. And yes - it hits you really fast when you're post-surgery. It pretty much goes right into your blood stream...