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on 7/27/21 5:31 pm
I told people pre op and post op. WLS is NOT the easy way out. I'm proud that I did it and if someone thinks it's the easy way out they are ignorant. Thankfully I've had a ton of support from family and friends. The only one who didn't want me to have it was my dad but he was just worried. Be proud you did it ;) It's not an easy journey mentally or physically.
I think it really depends on the teen, how mature they are and how well they cope with challenges. In any case, I think now is an excellent time for him to get involved with a good programme and begin working toward the goal of surgery. A good programme should include at least one visit with a psychologist, plus some work with a dietician.
My favorite non scale victory would have to be not being bedbound anymore and be able to enjoy life
You are not alone. ? There are so many people out there that feel the same way you do. It's not your fault you feel like you do. It's all the C-19 lock downs, stores and restaurants closing, just all this "stuff" that's happened in the past year. Yes, I've felt the same way. What did I do personally? I got up and work in the yard, go for a walk, go see friends and family cuz they need contact also, have your nails done, get a pedicure, walk around the store.....anything you put your mind to! You can do this! God Bless. ???
If you can't find a doctor that takes your insurance or if your insurance doesn't cover bariatric surgery (i've never had insurance cover it), then consider going to mexico for surgery and financing it like I did. If you have questions, lmk. I went there twice for surgery - excellent staff and procedure.
If you can get the surgery for him, I would do it immediately - however, educate them on what they can and can't do. I only wish I hadn't lived more than half my life overweight and all the problems that came with it.
Yes, getting up and moving.. changing focus to others instead of self..both grat wasy to get started on road to healing...
Yes, Been there., lack of proper sleep cycle, sleep 2-3 hours and awaken, when time to get up and go to work- was extremely sleepy- but had to work.... my primary symptom was not yours, but I was ANGRY... no reason, nothing specific toward anyone else just.. an internal RAGE.. explained it to physician as so angry , felt like fighting at the drop of a hat and I'd drop it...LOL I was started on zoloft dose pack for beginning treatment.. Dr said it might not be noticed for up to three weeks, but i took a first dose at noon and was able to sleep 6 hours that night....i stayed on meds for about 3 months, then began tapering. and was off by end of 5th month... mine was probably hormonal induced from known health issue.
Children's Hospital here in Colorado have an adolescent weight management program that includes WLS if appropriate. They do programs that include the whole family for the best chance of success.
It's awesome and I would highly recommend you see if your local children's hospital has a similar program.
It's a big step for a teen and I would not recommend any program that is cut and run.
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I honestly think that depends on his immediate health and a recommendation by a doctor(s).