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Just had a revision earlier this month, and I no longer have reflux. To me (everybody is different), it's easier without the gerd eating your stomach away feeling, and I don't have much of an appetite. Perhaps because I'm finally sleeping really well and that has a lot to do with appetite. I'm eating about 300-600 calories. I have to work to get my protein & calories. I've lost over 10 lbs since the revision. With VSG, I lost 17 lbs the first month, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to surpass that with the revision. It was always a struggle for me with the VSG although I would still classify it a successful VSG due to the weight loss. My surgeon, then, was conservative and made a 10 oz sleeve from the beginning. Again, everyone is different. As another said, some lose only 20 lbs.
I could say that it's about them, not about you. But you already know that. (Or if someone said, I think Eleanor Roosevelt I think, "What do you think of me is none of my business.")
If you have a smartphone, your local library may be enrolled in the Libby program, and you can get audiobooks for free. Add a little set of earbuds and you will have great minds to listen to while you go about your business.
Sharon
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Sharon
Of course, the hair loss has greatly affected my image. At first, I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror without dislike. Before alopecia, I had long, thick hair ? something that was defining in my appearance. I wore a high ponytail, braids. When my hair started to fall off, I decided to shave it off, and I didn't know what to do with the new image. How to perceive yourself, how to behave. At first I wore wigs: at first it was unusual, then I got into the taste and perceived the change of wigs as a game, but then I realized that it was not mine, I was uncomfortable. I decided to grow my healthy hair and thanks to https://hairdryerfair.com/why-does-my-hair-get-greasy-after- a-day/ I did it! Their advice helped me a lot!
on 8/13/21 5:20 pm, edited 8/13/21 10:20 am
There is a lot of variation in plans. Tomato soup would be a puréed food so probably not an issue if you have moved to soft but doesn?t have a lot of protein. My program had me on normal solid foods around 9 weeks, as tolerated, keeping in mind guidelines of protein first then vegetables or fruits.

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150
Jen
my surgeon says he is just a surgeon he isnt a dietition but i'm on the soft diet now and can you have tomato soup and when can you eat salads again
I should have kicked myself sooner but I am doing OK now...still a struggle. Glad that you had the strength to work through it all early on and sounds like you are doing ok!
I am sorry hear that. It's a fear of mine. Wishing you well.
Hang in there! You will get through this time and better days ahead.
on 8/13/21 6:19 am, edited 8/12/21 11:20 pm
It?s funny that I pay a big price for daring to b honest about these struggles.
I KNOW there are many people out there who don?t dare speak up - nor would I risk the lifelong stigma within my family or work if I couldn?t post honestly over the ? " anonymous " ? internet .
Yet even here some people think it?s ok to reject and judge and even block that person from posting if it?s within their power