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on 8/11/21 3:30 pm, edited 8/11/21 3:34 pm
I've been trying 2 negotiate out of my huge mortgage and crazy taxes . Offered them $ 25,000 more than the first offer and I?m just PRAYING now ....
Doesn't sound very food related but less stress, particularly money related stress means a lot less pressure to overeat , not exercise - or otherwise harm myself ( obviously I don?t mean radically ) ... but depriving, denying even refusing to fix my refrigerator and apartment electricity are all insulting terrible behaviors towards myself I?m starting to see , acknowledge and hopefully change .
Camping like a homeless person in so -called luxury isn?t cool . It?s settling for the worst because you wrongly believe you deserve 2 suffer .
on 8/11/21 6:31 am, edited 8/11/21 8:59 am
You?ll find you can do anything you want 2 do post op I think .
Its so sad that so many of us talented and lovely little creatures have been forced 2 give up on lifelong held dreams because of our very serious body struggles.
After all - we don't have cancer or another life threatening condition! We?re not even old usually! But we?ve been beaten down and discouraged.
Which is why it?s SO nice to live vicariously... and enjoy third hand a newbies amazement at their much improved health , mobility and beautiful new looks!
Much love , hugs and understanding.... (())))
please keep us posted :)
Thank you Veggiewoman! It is so great that you are now living your dream! Would have loved to be a singer and on stage but God decided otherwise. LOL. I just don't have that talent. I will try to stay hydrated as best I can. Vitamins are another issue because I never took them before surgery. Congratulations on overcoming addictions. I understand the struggles.
I so value your response. THANK YOU! I learn so much from your posts.
on 8/11/21 4:15 am, edited 8/11/21 9:35 am
on 8/11/21 3:27 am, edited 8/10/21 8:30 pm
Speaking of zinc and vitamin C the statistic is that you?re 75 % less likely to contract Covid if you?re exposed to it if you took Airborne that day .
Since I read that I take Airborne all the time especially when I?m working on a set exposed to hundreds of people or even shopping.
Zero Covid so far Thank God ( I did get tested again a few days ago - resoundingly negative :) )
and no I don't own stock in the company though I should probably buy some lol
on 8/11/21 3:22 am
WOW !!! Thank you SO MUCH for sharing this .
I myself have experienced scary forgetfulness during Covid when I was depressed and drinking too much and forgetting to take my daily vitamins.
I literally lost my car and house keys for WEEKS and had to have triple A come out and make me a key so I could drive ( 600 bux I kid you not - I drive a button push " smart " Volvo suv )
Not so smart 2 choose such a fancy car I'm thinking now lol.... but DEFINITELY idiotic to stop taking my vites.
i feel HUMAN and competent again after weeks of proper ingestion. We can't stop this stuff ! Malabsorption is a REAL thing and no rebellious attitude will conquer it - it just hurts us and our families who have to worry about us .
Don't get discouraged! While there are other challenges ahead, watching the pounds melt away made the challenges feel fairly minor. Also, you might be feeling a bit of post-op depression; that's very common but should fade quickly.
Getting in enough fluid was a struggle early on -- not because of restriction, but because it took a while to form the habit. Now I'm pretty good; especially since I noticed that I feel a sense of well-being when I drink 2+ liters per day.
Figuring out how much I could eat of different kinds of foods without getting the "foamies" was a bit frustrating. I think this is fairly individual; the foods that bother me may not bother you, and vice versa. You have to experiment, adding new foods slowly. It was a year before I could handle cauliflower and broccoli. Even now I have to be careful with "dry" foods like falafels. I can eat them, but I have to watch the quantity.
As I lost weight, I felt so much better physically. I felt stronger, but I didn't have much endurance for a while. I felt great, so I would often forget that I had surgery recently and would overdo things. I think it was about 9 months before I had all my endurance back.
At the same time, the first year was so wonderful and exciting that none of these things were as bad as they might sound!
I am 20 yrs post-op and still have malabsorption and have restriction.
As a new post op I am struggling with drinking enough fluids at this time. I am worried about the struggles I will come up against further down the road. What barriers/struggles have you found the hardest after weight loss surgery?