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dragracingwife
on 1/19/22 8:12 pm
Topic: RE: I need help how do I tell my two boys I'm have weight loss surgery

Thank you for answering my question yes my husband and I name them at because they were my husband favorite singers.

JackieLove
on 1/19/22 12:41 pm
Topic: Found a doctor that supports me

Months ago I posted that my PCP was not supportive of me wanting to have weight loss surgery. It really surprised me because my doctor had always made me feel pretty much supported before. I felt that something was off the day we discussed my health and options to help me lose weight but I couldn't put my finger on it. I left feeling defeated instead of uplifted. Anyway, I decided maybe we were not a good patient/doctor match and found another doctor that is very supportive, encouraging and she is optimistic that I can make the necessary changes in my life. My new doctors attitude changed everything for me because I know there is a mutual trust and respect from one human to another. I am seeing a dietitian now and planning my meals, trying not to stray from the plan and taking it very seriously. Whether I have weight loss surgery or not, I feel confident that I can reach my personal goals because I have a doctor that listens and cares and is genuinely interested in my wellbeing. I feel very lucky and excited to move forward and change my health.

Kathleen W.
on 1/19/22 11:47 am - Lancaster, PA
Topic: RE: I need help how do I tell my two boys I'm have weight loss surgery

I agree with Partlypollyanna. The only thing I would add is the fact that you love them very much and you want to be around for a long, long, time. You want to be able to take them to amusement parks and being able to enjoy them and yourself. Do all the crazy rides, etc. Take family vacations togethers and not have to be a party pooper. Take plenty of pictures of them and you being in the picture. 50 years from now, they can look at those pictures and remember that you loved them so much. You want to healthy and want the best for them and you.

SW 327
GW 150
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LeonaCR
on 1/19/22 5:14 am
Topic: RE: Found a doctor that supports me

It's good that you found the right doctor fit for you. I think that is very important. Good luck on your new journey.

Partlypollyanna
on 1/18/22 2:47 pm
RNY on 02/14/18
Topic: RE: I need help how do I tell my two boys I'm have weight loss surgery

Also, Hank and Cash....Williams and Johnny? I love that.

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

Partlypollyanna
on 1/18/22 2:46 pm
RNY on 02/14/18
Topic: RE: I need help how do I tell my two boys I'm have weight loss surgery

The same way you would tell them if you were having a hysterectomy or a knee replacement or a root canal.

You and your doctor have decided that you are having surgery....then walk them through the appropriate information based on what you know about them, their maturity and their ability to digest and react.

Be available to answer any questions. Tell them if it means they have to do anything unusual (stay at family if you have to overnight at the hospital), things like that.

If you make it dramatic, they will too; if you don't they probably won't.

HW: 306 SW: 282 GW: 145 (reached 2/6/19) CW:150

Jen

dragracingwife
on 1/18/22 1:09 pm
Topic: I need help how do I tell my two boys I'm have weight loss surgery

Hi I'm mother of two wonderful boys Hank who is 12, and Cash who is 9, and My question how do I tell them I going to have weight loss surgery?

TJFox
on 1/18/22 12:48 pm
Topic: RE: What some tips you would give me started looking into to have weight loss surgery

Research your surgeon well making sure he or she is board certified and has good patient reviews. Make sure you have a support system. Set goals.

White Dove
on 1/18/22 7:22 am - Warren, OH
Topic: RE: What are some easy exercise I can do weight over 500 pounds,

I am so happy with mine. It was a lot of money, but I compared it to what I spend on a car and decided my health was worth it.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends

SidneyLeiFrances
on 1/17/22 4:30 pm
Topic: RE: Best Juicer?

I had no idea! I just thought juicing was healthy and never even looked into it. Thank you for this information.

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