2020-Falling in love again with my wife
on 12/1/20 8:49 am
2020 has been a year of many things. The worldwide pandemic that changed all of our lives and how we live it day to day, riots and destruction, hatred for one another because of political preferences...the list goes on. For me, in the midst of an upside down world, I have found that I have fallen madly in love with my wife all over again. I mean like back to the days when we were first dating. It's only been weeks since we begin counseling and started our date nights again but the magic is back! I guess we both got so focused on ourselves and daily life but not each other...us together. Now, we are talking more, laughing, reminiscing and making time for each other. The love for each other has always been there but it was taken for granted. I won't make that mistake again.
I'm happy for you.
When we stop telling each other "Good morning" or Thank you, or "you are special" or greeting each other without a kiss, stop doing the little things that showed the other person they are important to us, we may start falling out of love.
Keep doing what you are doing. Remember the little and big things you do for each other.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
on 12/8/20 6:45 pm
Thank you for your encouragement and important reminders too. Sometimes it is indeed just the little things that matter the most.
on 12/8/20 6:49 pm
Thank you for your blessings. Is sure has and I am glad we both agreed to finally go to counseling.