How much help will I need when I come home?
I have two sisters that are nurses so I had plenty of care.I feel very lucky for that. I didn't need as much help as I thought I would though.Help caring for my cats and dog was a big one for me. I had someone to take the dog out several times a day, something I didn't feel like doing the first few days.
I needed help with my dog as I couldn't bend over and pick up his waste.
I had a pretty hard time getting out of bed. A recliner helps a lot.
In general I had no problem getting myself drinks/food, and getting to the bathroom. Actually wiping my own butt was pretty difficult for the first few days, though I think I only had one BM to worry about.
After that first week or two though you're going to be able to get around pretty well. You'll be sore for a bit but after about 6 weeks I was lifting weights and all that without any pain or discomfort. Though I did ease into it.