Dating after surgery
on 10/26/18 4:32 pm, edited 10/26/18 9:34 am - Greater Toronto Area, Canada
I hoed at 250 lbs. I'm still gonna hoe at 150 with saggy breasts and bat wings. I think once you're 30 or older, it doesn't matter. Women have lose skin and scars for a variety of reasons (child birth etc) and guys know that and don't care .... cause it's still sex. Also, I think if you're confident about who you are, they will pick up on that. If you're insecure about your body it just amplifies "flaws". If it's a big issue for you then wait longer till getting naked with someone.
Female 30s Canada
RNY January 4, 2019
I lost 100% of my excess weight.
Currently re-comping body/losing vanity pounds prior to plastics.
If you are getting naked, most men don't care. All they usually are thinking is "I actually got someone naked. I'm going to have sex. Woo Hoo!" Everyone is usually too preoccupied about themselves to enjoy it. For instance, most people think "Is my penis big enough? Are my breasts too droopy?" They truly don't care about your saggy skin with scars. You will most likely be more worried about your body than your partner. Your partner will be worried about his body/performance.
on 10/29/18 6:26 pm
After my surgery, I pretty much looked like any other average woman in her mid-30's who'd maybe carried a pregnancy or two (even though I hadn't been pregnant at that point).
I think most women are pretty lumpy underneath their clothes, massive weight loss or no :)
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
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VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!