INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION

Just based on the posts you've made about yourself and your life, you've got a lot to work on yourself before bringing another child into your world.

• Get a boyfriend that lasts...one that makes you not care about the many men who want a piece of you. You're not there yet. We can all agree with your obsession of men paying attention to you.
• Learn to live without wine every night.
• Get into a stable lifestyle that is consistent and predictable. Children need that. If you have told the truth about your glamorized jet setting life, it is not suitable to raise a child. If you weren't truthful, then you need to be comfortable being yourself, even if it doesn't sound interesting.

Valerie i actually agree with you. I?m an exceptional artist and that makes me very financially successful but emotionally vulnerable ... probably not the best mother in the traditional sense.

However I?ve been a wonderful pet mom for many years. I can hire and pay caretakers to make up my defincies. If i was an adoptable child... I'd LOVE to be chosen by me. My life would be filled with travel, great schools, true affection and love, the very best opportunities and experiences my parent could provide.

I owned dogs and cats for 10 years before having my son. Owning pets and having a human child are NOT AT ALL THE SAME.

Not even in the same dimension.

Childless me thought they were similar. I mock her.