Throwing out the V day candy..surprisingly hard

I'm so sorry your ex assaulted you. That's terrible, and no one deserves to be treated that way.

Ty ((())) I really appreciate your kind support

If some jerk thought he had the right to grab me just because he brought me some candy, I'd kick him out the door and the candy would bounce off the back of his head.

LOL

Amen.

I would kick him out the door but first, I would kick him somewhere else.

Good for you! Remember there's a reason this person is an ex. This person wants you to remain needy so that the abuse can continue. Since it's an ex you don't need to be polite. You don't have to take the gift. Hand it back and say something like "I don't eat chocolate." When the ex says we'll you used to just reply that you don't anymore. This person is a food pusher and is trying to sabotage your success. Don't think about looking for binge foods. Think about your successes and how great life is going to be. Keep the ex out of your life. I've found that you have to stand up for yourself. If you don't respect yourself no one else will.

Thank you guys for being such caring and supportive friends . Its hard to put into words how much your kind support means to me.