just found out im prego 3 months before my surgery...need help and opnions!

I thought about it myself before when I was in school and thought I might be pregnant. I don't think I could have ever went through it. I didn't cuz I wasn't pregnant. But I was scared. I spend a lot of money on that school and I wanted to finish. I banked everything on it. I would have regretted an abortion badly. I love kids and babies...

Is there a way to just hide it from the doc****il you closer to surgery and have your 6 months pre-op done and then tell them? I wonder if you would have to do the 6 months over again if you just waited till the baby was born... Wouldn't it be feasible to just hold off the surgery till two months after the baby was born? it would still be 2018 wouldn't it? Your insurance would still be in effect.

I want to add that if you do choose to have a baby right now, you will probably find that it makes sense to delay surgery until your baby is one or two years old so that they can get all of the many benefits of breastfeeding. It is possible to keep up your milk supply while having surgery (I did it) but really difficult and you would want to make sure that your baby is getting all of their necessary calories through solid food first.