WTF? Just need to vent I guess....

Kathy S.
on 6/29/17 12:11 pm - InTheBurbs, XX
RNY on 08/29/04 with
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HW:330 - GW:150 - MW:118-125

RW:190 - CW:130

Kathy S.
on 6/29/17 12:11 pm - InTheBurbs, XX
RNY on 08/29/04 with

As the kids say Jelly much?

HW:330 - GW:150 - MW:118-125

RW:190 - CW:130

missc_26
on 6/29/17 1:31 pm
VSG on 10/03/16

Oh yesssss that Shannen Doherty gif is on point!!

Jester
on 6/29/17 7:57 pm
RNY on 03/21/16 with

I'd say he's jealous if he wasn't absolutely RIPPED. The guy is pushing 80 years old and in better shape than almost anyone I've ever met! Works out for hours a day.

Gina 22 years out
on 6/30/17 5:42 am - Burleson, TX

I always read all the responses, before I say anything. I especially glad I did, in this case.

Ok, he's pushing 80. He has ALMOST earned the right, to have no filter...lol

Is there ANY chance he could have been teasing/flirting/ribbing you? Just playing Devil's Advocate. I could see my grandfather doing something like that

RNY 4-22-02...

LW: 6lb,10 oz SW:340lb GW:170lb CW:155

We Can Do Hard Things

RNY on 12/22/14

Old people often become incredible but-in-skis. An opinion on everything and the need to say it all.

Glad you defended yourself, because if it keeps up, your responses can become more direct. "Sam, you've been around long enough to know that commenting on someone's weight can be ________________" distracting or obnoxious - depending on your level of I hate this job and now I have to deal with this **** - or I like my job I just wish he would shut up about my weight).

Sometimes it takes something really unacceptable for us to see that something has been unsatisfying for awhile.

Sharon

diane S.
on 6/30/17 11:09 am

Some men think its ok to comment on personal appearance. Years ago one guy used to always comment on what I was wearing - mostly not negative, just something like "blue today" but it annoyed me. I don't know if he did it to others. He would comment if he saw me eat a piece of candy (in my fat days), but he was not my boss. Its hard to get snarky with your boss when he probably means no harm, but you can just not get defensive and say "Thanks for the tip" and keep going with whatever you are doing.

P.S. Mr. Candy Comment is now fat and I am not. LOL. Diane S


      
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Deanna798
on 7/2/17 5:13 am
RNY on 08/04/15

what a dick thing to say, especially when you've had such a large amount of weight loss. I'm assuming you've worked with him long enough for him to recognize that you have lost weight. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

Age: 44 | Height: 5' 3" | Starting January 2015: 291 | RNY 8/4/15 with Dr. Arthur Carlin| Goal: 150

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. ~Proverbs 19:20

Jester
on 7/2/17 6:37 pm
RNY on 03/21/16 with

Oh yes. I was at my 333 weight while working there. About 152 now. He knows

Jester
on 7/9/17 6:46 pm
RNY on 03/21/16 with

Oh yeah, he's been through the whole process with and is aware I had surgery!

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