Purim parties NYC - I'm asked out by a 19 year old

Omg !!!

Just a suggestion, but how about creating an "Off Topic" general forum for anything non-weight loss/surgery related?

There is an off topic board on OH. It's dead. There used to be a public Rants and Raves forum that was force to close. OH opened the off topic board that nobody uses.

Well, so there is! LOL I missed that. Oh well...

I agree that this is off topic for the main forum, as it has nothing to do with weight loss. However, again, I second the OP's request for a relationship forum. She was told to make a group, but we all know there's a HUGE difference between a group and a forum.

Honestly.. it is not off topic tho ... we lose a lot of weight we feel and look very sexy and are shockingly vulnerable... why can't we talk about this ? Every one of us experiences it!

as written, your original post doesn't relate to weight loss or weight loss surgery.

Shrug.

I can see how it might have been on topic in your head, but what you wrote was off topic.

Just be careful! He's legal, otherwise age doesn't matter. Except sometimes it cause maturity gaps, and that can sometimes cause relationship issues! Is he mature enough to handle you? :) Sure in bed, but in life? If he is someone to just have fun with, then I wouldn't worry so much about this aspect, but if you're thinking he may become something serious, ask yourself what kinds of decisions would he make, only having the experience of 19 years? Good luck! And have fun. (Safely) :)

I know that a wealthy man will often date someone 40 years younger. The problem for anyone doing that is the financial aspect. While you are playing with this person young enough to be your grandson, you are denying yourself the opportunity to meet a man who is financially in a position to make your material life better.

There are many men your age or older who would gladly support you in a very comfortable lifestyle. Many older men are divorced or widowed. They have beautiful homes with no mortgages and excellent incomes. They are lonely and happy to have an attractive companion to spoil.

I have several friends who at about age 55 moved in with or married men who were close to 80. One is 67 and just celebrated her boyfriend's 90th birthday. He looks and acts much younger. They live in his mansion in Arizona. They drive luxury autos, take plane trips to vacations and resorts whenever they please, have beautiful clothes and furniture. Most importantly they love and cherish each other.

It is not a life that I chose for myself, but I have had numerous opportunities to do something similar. I was always told that it is better to be an old man's darling than a young man's slave. I have found that older men are not always looking to make love as often as minks, but that they can be tender, passionate and very romantic lovers when they do make love.

I have dated men twenty years younger than me and men twenty years older. Some men improve with age.