Does everyone tell their coworkers that you had surgery?

twjojo09
on 3/4/17 9:31 am

Wow! I can't believe your boss told your private medical health business to other people. She had no business or right to do that! That is not professional at all and you're right. Not cool at all! I would never tell her anything private again. I don't know if you work for a small company or large, but I would think that would be against the law or at least a company rule.

swim_bike_smile
on 2/27/17 6:49 am
RNY on 06/13/16

NOPE!  I told my coworkers and bosses that I was taking off for 4 weeks because I was having surgery, but did not tell them what kind of surgery.  I'm over 8 months out and I still have not told them because it's personal medical information, and my office is really good about respecting personal boundaries.

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Ginnny
on 2/27/17 7:08 am - Ontario, Canada
RNY on 04/11/16

I have told two people in my life, nobody else.  It isn't anyone elses business but your own.

Over 100 lbs lost! and 13 lbs below goal weight!

TheNewT
on 2/27/17 7:33 am
VSG on 08/04/14

If you don't want to tell, don't. It is OK to not open your life to coworkers. Some people never tell others and just leave people with their assumptions. Do what works for you!

I did tell people. I was fine with being this "open book" because I knew I could verbally eviscerate anyone who said some thing negative. I'm sweet as can be... until you cross me. Everyone at work knows that about me. So if anyone had any negative comments, I've never heard them.

nitethyme
on 2/27/17 7:38 am - Etobicoke, Canada
RNY on 12/18/15

Truly is a personal decision ... I told my office co-workers and they were nothing more then supportive and encouraging.  I think it really depends on the relationships you have with your co-workers ... we're a small group and share a lot! You should not be embarrassed for taking control of your life and health ... be proud of yourself! 

Referral: September 2014; TWH Orientation: December 9, 2014; Social Worker: March 2015; Nutrition Class: May 5,  2015; Nurse Practitioner: May 20, 2015; Psych Evaluation: August 2015; Nutritionist: September 2015; Meet the Surgeon: November 6, 2015; Pre-Op: December 4, 2015; Scheduled Surgery: December 18, 2015; HW 367; SW 341

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 2/27/17 7:43 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16

I didn't plan to tell and didn't until I reached goal at which point I decided I was comfortable sharing the information.

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

rachelp
on 2/27/17 8:07 am
VSG on 08/01/16

No, I did not tell my co-workers or anyone but 2 people other than my husband. It's nobody's business. They've all seen me yo-yo weight before so they are non the wiser.

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Renee C.
on 2/27/17 8:33 am - Bellevue, WA
Revision on 02/01/17

I just told people I was out for surgery.  Did not tell them what kind.  I assume I'll get questions later once I've lost a significant amount of weight and I'll probably be fine with outing myself then.  

In the meantime I don't want the pressure of people watching me to see if I lose the weight and keep it off.

Band removal & RNY Feb 1 2017

Pond Jumper
on 2/27/17 8:50 am - Calgary, Canada
VSG on 07/10/17

I really fought with this for a while, but I don't plan on giving specific details about what op I'm having. I've been losing weight for a while now but still pre-op, and a couple of colleagues know I've been working on my weight for a while now, so I don't think it'll be an overly obvious change afterwards.

Referral to CABSC: Aug 2016 (weight 267.4lbs) Orientation (Online): Sept 2016 Intake Assessment: Oct 2016 Nutritionist: Nov 2016 Psych: Dec 2016 Nutritionist: Jan 2017 Surgery Info Class: Feb 2017 Nurse Practitioner: Feb 2017 Meet the Surgeon: Mar 2017 (weight 225lbs) Surgery Prep Class: April 2017 Nurse Practitioner Check in: May 2017 (weight 221lbs) Endoscope: May17th 2017 Surgery: July 10th 2017

Pre-op: 52lbs; Post-op: M1: 14lbs, M2: 10lbs, M3: 5lbs, M4: 6lbs, M5: 2lbs (stall), M6: 4lbs, M7: 5lbs, M8:6lbs, M9:5lbs, M10:4lbs, M11:4lbs

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on 2/27/17 8:54 am
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