Does everyone tell their coworkers that you had surgery?
I had surgery in March and I told everyone in late July of that year. I consider my WLS to be "public information" at this point. I'm almost 3 years post-op and it rarely comes up in conversation now, but I am completely open about it when it does.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
TrendWeight | Food Blog (sort of functional) | Journal (down for maintenance)
I told no one at all. I have a sedentary job and was back in my office five days after surgery. I only took two days off and worked from home on Friday.
I didn't tell them about my hemorrhoids, either. No one but my spouse and my medical care team has a right to know about my health.
Everyone sees me eating healthy foods in small portions and working out, so they naturally assume that's the entire story. I am a private person in a cut-throat field where appearance is highly valued. Believe me, I had no desire to share, and they didn't earn my trust.
You don't owe your coworkers anything except pulling your weight on the job. Everything else is up to your discretion.
HW: 250+ SW:215 (W leaving hospital: 224!)
CW: 138; DR GW: 166; MY GW: 130
M1: -20, M2: -8, M3: -14, M4: -11, M5: -8, M6: -5 M7: -7 M8: in progress
As others have said, it's a personal decision. I told co-workers once I had my surgery scheduled (which was about 2 weeks in advance). I have 8 people reporting to me and they care about my well-being and would have wondered.
VSG: 1/17/17
5'7" HW: 283 SW: 229 CW: 135-140 GW: 145
Pre-op: 53 M1: 22 M2: 12 M3: 12 M4: 8 M5: 10 M6: 11 M7: 5 M8: 6 M9-M13: 15-ish
LBL/BL w/ Fat Transfer 1/29/18
I told my boss (duh--I needed off for the surgery and doctor's visits) and she told the entire office. When I confronted her about it, she said that since I didn't tell her it was "private," she didn't think I cared that everyone knew. It wasn't cool then and it isn't cool now. I do get questions about it and I answer truthfully.