Serious question but an odd one, I know... NSV? Kind of?
I was taught that it's rude to stick your butt in someone's face when getting to your seat in a theater or restaurant, so I'd face the people.
I also think it's odd to read "former fatty." I'm pretty sure I'll always be obese, no matter what I look like on the outside.
I will always be a fatty on the inside. That's going to keep me honest. No ****
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YAAAAASSSSSS!! When my boobs stopped sitting on the table, I was thrilled.
ISO ... New "clique" members. You must be kind, warm, welcoming, honest, intelligent, and have a sense of humor. The words "shamed" or "victim" can not be in your regular vocabulary. Sarcasm is welcome (and wanted!), but cruelty is not. You must not be a coddler or a shamer. All members are free to classify themselves as vets, newbies, grasshoppers or anything else they desire.
I enjoy long walks on the beach, puppies, sunsets and taking off my bra as I pull in the driveway. If you are like minded, you are in!
And remember, we are ALL worthy of love, humor, and dignity.
I started a new group here for my old BP friends and any new friends who have a sense of humor. Link to join:
I typically exit ass in face. For me it's less invasive than crotch in face. 
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Definitely face them. I will look them in the eye while i sqeeze by. Better to be awkward than to be rude and put your hiney in their face.
Plus, is you're single, it could open the opportunity for "That moment". 
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As long as you say excuse me, noone should care. You know, manners maketh the the woman ... I've never got that close to a stranger that I've touched them getting out of a booth, but then I never go to Cheesecake Factory if I can help it - makes me nauseous just thinking of their humungous menu
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As long as you say excuse me, noone should care. You know, manners maketh the the woman ... I've never got that close to a stranger that I've touched them getting out of a booth, but then I never go to Cheesecake Factory if I can help it - makes me nauseous just thinking of their humungous menu
RIGHT? I stick with the edamame (plain, with sea salt) and a grilled artichoke. I don't even open the menu.
I have a girls' night twice a month and we rotate who picks. There are 10 of us, so it's only my choice every few months...
ISO ... New "clique" members. You must be kind, warm, welcoming, honest, intelligent, and have a sense of humor. The words "shamed" or "victim" can not be in your regular vocabulary. Sarcasm is welcome (and wanted!), but cruelty is not. You must not be a coddler or a shamer. All members are free to classify themselves as vets, newbies, grasshoppers or anything else they desire.
I enjoy long walks on the beach, puppies, sunsets and taking off my bra as I pull in the driveway. If you are like minded, you are in!
And remember, we are ALL worthy of love, humor, and dignity.
I started a new group here for my old BP friends and any new friends who have a sense of humor. Link to join:
