What are you going to have on Valentines Day?

Kathy S.
on 2/13/17 11:14 am - InTheBurbs, XX
RNY on 08/29/04 with

Hi Renren,

I too have lost my husband...  It's hard to adjust but we can do it!  PM me anytime if you need to talk 

HW:330 - GW:150 - MW:118-125

RW:190 - CW:130

(deactivated member)
on 2/15/17 5:15 am

(((()))))So sorry Kathy. Hugs

Highfunctioningfatman
on 2/13/17 11:46 am
VSG on 08/29/16
On February 13, 2017 at 5:25 PM Pacific Time, Renren wrote:

 My Husband I always celebrated on February 13th. It was the anniversary of our first date in 1984. He passed away in December, so this is the first one without him in over 30 years. I'm a little sad but over the shock at least. Take time to celebrate stuff, the memories are worth it.

Sorry for your loss. I sort of relate to that. My mom died 15 years ago on 2/13. She had just turned 50. I now work for the company that took care of her.

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 2/14/17 2:38 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16

So sorry for your losses. My daughter was very ill at this time 12 years ago and died in March, so I re-live it every year at this point.  But the good memories are the best ones, so pull them up whenever you can.

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 121

Pond Jumper
on 2/13/17 9:27 am - Calgary, Canada
VSG on 07/10/17

I'm happily single, but sometimes it gets a bit much. I'm single the other 364 days a year so why should this one day bother me so much when I didn't like it when I was in a relationship?

So, my daughter and I are off to see a scary film, no popcorn but maybe a few Twizzlers. I'm sure the cinema will be full of couples off to see 50 Shades of Yawning but they're welcome to it!

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CC C.
on 2/13/17 9:33 am

I'm happily single too. Valentines Day doesn't even show up on my radar anymore except for the occasional cheesy Valentines Hallmark channel movie I can't stop myself from watching. I imagine I'll have leftover something or other and snuggle my dog. 

suzzzzz
on 2/13/17 10:28 am
VSG on 06/23/16

I am single and have a pot of beautiful red tulips on my coffee table. I usually try to keep fresh flowers around, but this time these appealed to me most.  They were part of the valentine's display. No special plans for tomorrow and I am OK with that.

Rachel B.
on 2/13/17 7:48 pm - Tucson, AZ
VSG on 08/11/08 with

LOVE TULIPS!!!!!

"...This one a long time have I watched. All his life has he looked away, to the future, to the horizon. Never his mind on where he was. What he was doing..."

Rachel, PMHNP-BC

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H.A.L.A B.
on 2/13/17 10:33 am

Chocolate.  

Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG

"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"

"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."

Kathy S.
on 2/13/17 11:12 am - InTheBurbs, XX
RNY on 08/29/04 with

I recently loss my husband and he spoiled me rotten on V day and every day.  Being newly single I am going to use Valentine's Day for self love and value.  Bought some flowers and going to treat myself to a mani and pedi at home.  

Enjoy everyone and fill the special day with non food options.       

 

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RW:190 - CW:130

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