My Big Fat Fabulous Life! Spoiler Alert! Take 2

please don't speak for the state of my health. You have no idea if she is healthier than I am or not. It is very presumptuous.

Hi H.a.l.a. B.

That is my frustration with this show...  At first I was all about the message especially when she was helping little girls feel good about themselves.  But we all know when it affects our health then it's time for change. When she started attacking everyone and not listening I got so frustrated with her. You and I know her body is going to keep letting her know, it's coming, it's coming and when she hits 40 (or maybe earlier) it will be pay back BIG TIME!  I hope she comes to her senses before then.  We shall see ...

don'****ch the show, but i have seen enough comments and short clips to know what is all about. 

I used to be fit fat person... going from one diet to the next to lose 70-80 lbs and regain it..over and over... until in my mid 40 - I could no longer lose weight... and I started having other health issues... and worse of that was my back issues... back pain.. 

I had RNY to lose weight and fix some of my issues.  And i healthier now? no - my health is a combination of all those diets , fasts, severe exercises to fix my freight the natural way.. if I had the WLS earlier - I probably would be a much healthier now.. I waited too long....

but i probably would have the same issues or even worse if I did not lose weight... bu at least now no doc can blame my issues on my weight... at least now I get the treatment I always needed... that came with me working my butt of to lose all the excess weight post op and be diligent with follow ups with my docs.... 

if she does not lose weight - her health is goings to get worse and worse...eventually her joints will be completely damaged and no serious does will want to do joints replacement for her ..based on just this info - her having cysts - looks like she has already serious hormonal imbalance... taht only going to get worse... 

loving oneself at any size is one thing... not doing anything about getting her weight under control and trying to get healthy - is another...

now - I never knew she needs her mother help to shave her legs... that it itself is sad... what next? she would need someones hep to wipe her ass? what is she gets injured? right now she probably would have a hard time fitting into an MRI machine... what if she needs a physical help when she is not well?  one person can't possible be able to help her get up if she fells without risking to injure him/her self.. The list can go on and on and on..

Fat, beautiful and healthy... other than PCOS an eating disorder and diabetes... living with her parents...

I am fascinated about why you're obsessed with thus show! 

Is it because she's fat and happy. You can't understand why she's so accepting of herself? It's so odd. Perhaps you need some self reflection on why this show is so interesting to you. 

I am fascinated about why you care what shows other people like to watch!

It's OK Julie, fair question and I answered....

Hi Nura777,

You are new here and don't know me well.  I care, I care off the charts to the point the members tease me all the time   I never give up on people.  Read my comment to H.a.l.a.B and you will see.  I know what is coming as I lived it and keep watching in hopes she starts to make the changes she needs to for her health.  If you watch the show she already has had some scary health warnings about her weight.  I never give up on people!

Not obsessed and no reflection needed.  

You are our special snowflake unicorn, Kathy!!!    We knew our new friend was a newbie to the sandpit as soon as he/she said you didn't care ...   OH old peeps be like  WHAAAAAAAAT????

Nura777, some of us here can definitely be hard nosed ******** at times,  but questioning Kathy's  caring nature is like kicking a fluffy kitten!!!   She honestly is probably the kindest person on here.

where's my unicorn with rainbows coming out my butt avatar