My Big Fat Fabulous Life! Spoiler Alert! Take 2

Nasty much? Who pissed in your cornflakes today.? 

Lol sorry, it's carb free life post op. So no cornflakes! 

OMGosh H.a.l.a. B, I used to eat frosted corn flakes and bananas with more sugar all the time.  

Not more sugar but I sure did love cereal milk and bananas lol. I Still have five year old boxes of frosted shredded wheat hanging around the house " just in case " 

I'll take my chances at longevity over hers, even with my mutilated anatomy.  How many SMO people do you see in their 70's or 80's?  Don't think I've ever seen ONE in my daily life, but maybe it's because of where I live.  Maybe someone from one of the unhealthier  states can chime in on the hundreds they see out and about every day?

My mum is obese and in her 80's, but not ONE SMO in her assisted living facility - I'd say my mum is probably the largest person in there!

Wishing you and I the best. She can lose the weight naturally to get healthy if she's facing a health concern. Can we regenerate ourselves on the other hand. Nope lol. 

Let's celebrate her for having the capacity to self love in the face of society's bull**** But that's just my opinion. 

Hi Nura777,

Please always feel free to post your opinion here, it's valued!  We all may go back and forth but that is what it's all about.  Respect and differences.

I noticed you don't have your surgery type and date posted.  If you had that info it would help us to know you and where you are on  your journey.  If you need help with that let me know.  

For those of us that are years out we know we would not be here if we had not lost the weight no matter what method.  My husband and I both were buffet buddies and was very overweight our entire marriage. I had surgery and lost over 200 pounds and he did not.  I am here, healthy and happy and enjoy my 2 little grandsons and he died 12/5/15.  

It's a fact of biology that her body will give out if she does not lose the weight.  But as I said I respect her for the message she is getting out especially for the young girls.  I was bullied in school for being fat, trust me been there, felt that.  

Hang with us anytime!

I absolutely ADORE how diplomatic you are and I wish I knew you in real life so you could give me lessons.  

And sorry about your husband.   That really sucks so bad.  

I cant figure out the emojis on here or I'd send you a huggy one.  

((())) So sorry Kathy. 

I understand from your other posts here that you regret having had the surgery. That said, statistics and research show that having WLS gives patients BY FAR the best odds for getting healthy, and saying that she can "lose the weight naturally" flies in the face of the (sorta depressing) medical reality.