Going backwards

Wow, what a loser!  Not you, your soon to be ex...  I am so sorry for all you are going through but keep reading H.a.l.a.B said.  Best revenge is living well!  We are here for you!  

Yes Yes Yes!! Best revenge is to be HAPPY, look FABULOUS, and move on!! A much better life awaits you now! Maybe this was part of "the plan" for you. Get rid of the weight including him. Lose weight, get active in as many things as possible, make new friends (male and female) and create a better life from this. DO NOT let him have control over your life!