Changes in life

Not having to worry if I'll fit in seats is a huge one. Movie theaters used to be pretty risky, and airplanes were horrible. No problem now, though!

I never used to wear skirts or dresses, and I do now all the time. I love wearing colorful tights under them, wheres pre-op the only kind of tights I could squeeze into were the 4X size nude color nylons from walmart. 

Dating. I know many people have very successful love lives at all different sizes and I absolutely believe in the BBW, but for me personally I was not even considering dating pre-op. I was desperately lonely and WANTED to date, but I felt that if a man was willing to look past how huge I was was already so far in his debt that it would never be an equal relationship. I also thought that men who prefer bigger women were weird and must have something wrong with them. NOW of course I can see that was just my own self-hate, and that there's nothing wrong with preferring bigger women, but at the time I was not willing to even try dating. Now I'm happily married to the man of my dreams!

Thank you for sharing about your dating and getting married. 

Airplane seats are the worst. Nowadays they just squeeze us into the plane.